How do u end up with the quarreling with ur partner?
By Ansen zhu
@mac_fish (723)
China
November 26, 2009 6:52am CST
Couple quarrel,no matter how deeply they love each other,how long they have been live together,how good the relationship between them.It's seemed an essential part of life.
When it breaks out,u have to quell it.And the key point is how?.
It's pretty hard to yield to him/her as to end up a quarrel,make an illusion that we get a compromise and everything is back to normal,every every,every...... time!!
Coz,I aver that I'm right,the choice and decision make sense,I insist that,and this is also the reason why quarrel breaks out.
Whatever,my question is how to end up it,it's a art,and I konw some guys are good at it,Any suggestions?? from Ladies??
3 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
27 Nov 09
Hello, macfish! when we fight I usually zip my mouth and let my partner pour all the anger and after the fight I isolate my self to cool down or go somewhere quiet so i can think and cool down my anger. If we both calm we sit and talk about the issues.
@dhanasekart1984 (450)
• India
27 Nov 09
quarelling is necessary in relationship to make a spicy life.. its very simple to cool down a girl/lady because basically they are more kind at heart than men(some men takes advantage of this). if you really want to end that quarreling, dont mind if the quarreling is in high pitch, hug her suddenly by saying a sorry and i love you.. she will forget what,s the next dialogue to screw you up and she will cool down and forgive u, don't leave there because again it might catch up fire.. speak something cool and and try make her laugh if not possible atleast make her smile. by the time bring some eatables from kitchen and you feed her.. see the result.. now she will hug you and say sorry and will ly on your shoulder and cry..
after all.. you guys are for each other,
