Do you like talking to someone when you're angry?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
November 27, 2009 6:44am CST
There are some people I've known who don't talk anyone when they get angry or not in mood. While others prefer to have someone to talk with. As it gives them a sense of relief and somehow makes them felt better. How about you, do you find someone to talk with when you're angry,or do you prefer to lock your self in a four corner of walls?
4 responses
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
28 Nov 09
When i am angry, i will go to a quite place to stay calm. Saying too wmch will make me more angry. At that, if someone want to talk to me, i will tend to be ablaze with anger.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Well if quite place would make you calm your self, then it's good. Because there are times when we're angry we tend to say things we might regret on the end. We have different way of dealing our anger. What is best is we know how to control our emotions and not letting our emotions control our actions. Anyway thank you for sharing with us my friend and enjoy your day!
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
Hi. I am the type of person who keeps (extra) quiet when angry. Whenever I'm angry, I just ask others to keep away for the moment. I keep myself busy so that others will not disturb me. This has been my way of preventing myself from hurting anybody, especially those who have nothing to do with the situation.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Well that's good as you could avoid to do something that might hurt other people. Because there times when we tend to pass our negative emotions with other people. Like when you get angry because you're being scolded by your mom, and then you met peter who annoys you, so you get angry with peter, and peter get angry as well, then the peter met john and he get angry with john and john met simon and get angry with simon and and so on.. they have that psychological term they used, I just forget. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
hello caregarden!
for me, i choose to be alone when i am angry! only because i want to avoid more conflicts, coz when i am really angry, i tend to say things that are not appropriate and might cause more troubles...
what i really want to do when i am angry is to shout! haha shout so loud to release my anger...but too bad, that's not possible! huh!
but there's one time, that i get angry to my husband, and i am really hurt to what happened, when i saw my friend, i talk to her and told her what i am feeling for the moment...she's just so nice to listen to me and give some advices since she's a lot older than i am... and after talking to her, i feel great relief and i feel that my anger melts...
so i guess for me, depends on the situation and to whom to talk to...
happy weekend!
happy weekend!@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
When we're angry it's good for us to release it,in one way or another because keeping it will only do us harm on our health. I do practiced on that. It's good to have someone who's kind and a good listener and someone whom we can truly trust, to talk about what we felt. Or any other way, like shouting in a very distant, release all the negative emotions that I felt. It's very helpful to me. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
27 Nov 09
When I'm angry I don't choose to talk to others or not, as they will do even if I look angry. The problem is that if I'm angry I will act angrily to the person who speaks to me, so maybe it would be better for the other party not to talk to me in that moment.
Even so, talking to someone makes me feel better.
