Hearts, Frogs n'flies:Lessons learned from falling in love n' out of love

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Love brings about a sense of euphoria and well being, especially if you have found the One. But sometime in our lives, we have met a few frogs, flies, toads or rats in the course of the relationship. I had my share of frogs. flies, toads or rats when I met guys who were players, who have strings of relationships from Asia to North America ( I am only exaggerating), who were not committed, who were in to you at first but in the end they just gave up and forgot about you, a guy who likes you but you don't like him because he has a froggy voice, a guy who was nice but I turned him down because he was tone deaf, a guy whom you told that you like him, says thank you, and later when you ignore him, he suddenly chases you and other guy gripes ( if you're a guy, girl gripes), a guy asking you out on a friendly date when his partner is pregnant and also working in the same company I am in. On the other hand, while you were finding the One, you hurdled a lot of difficult situations just to be with the that special someone. You climbed oceans and swam mountains just to find time with whom your heart beats for. What I want to know is what your experience was ( be it a heart, frog, fly, toad or rat situation or you can add more to the list) the lessons learned from all these situations you went through and your advice to those who need it the most. Thank you everyone!