I s there a mistake of bein in love?

Everyone has the right to fall in love many times. Human beings feel the need to find a partner, so if they lose one they will naturaly look for a new one in the end. Sometimes is a mistake falling in love because we fall for the wrong person, but we can make up for it the next time.

mods196621, You seem to love the security that accompanied with his presence, but you never did give him or yourself a chance to love genuinely. And as a result, there's too much fantasy-indulgence that you have fed your befuddled soul with, giving rise to all sort of illusionary expectation you desire in your relationship. Your loyalty is wavering - citing that he is nothing but normal and normal isn't what you are looking for. Have you both communicated about this matter? Seriously, it isn't too huge of a hole to mend if both parties are willing to work things through. Of course, if that's not part of your decision to smooth out the edges in your relationship, then it will degenerate rapidly. Before you keep looking out of your relationship for answers and hastily decide that that's true love for you, why not you try to understand and love the man you are with? It's kinda sad getting married with a man you hardly even knew or love. Sure, you might have dated and known each other for years, but to me, the relationship is hardly anywhere concrete. Have you even given your marriage a good try? Or do you simply disregard it completely? The answer would decide your route to take. P.S. No offense taken, if I am being too direct and forthcoming here. I am just trying to state a perspective here. Take care and have a nice day.

i am married for 7 years already.... and i am satisfied of what i have already. i hope my wife feels the same way. but if ever the time comes and she grows out of love on me i guess she has the right to fall inlove. as long as she will tell it to me and not doing it behind my back. it is painful, yes but it is much more pain to know it late. i can say that when you are married you have the lass right to fall inlove again, but sometimes we dont know what has the future has for us. this is difficult to response for i dont like my wife to fall inlove again and fall out of love to me.... but then again i am speaking for IFs. so i guess as long as she will tell it straight to me then we can work out on something. this is difficult. specially me i am married.

i believe that people have the right to be in love over and over again but when it comes to marriage, people should cherish the commitment that they promised to God. marriage is sacrament and it should be sacred so people shouldn't take it as a form of event that should be accomplished whether you love the person or not.