What is the one thing you DO NOT tolerate in a relationship?

Hi. I would not tolerate any physical or verbal abuse. I would do everything just to get out of any abusive relationships.

Lying would be the second most untolerable thing in a relation. First would be cheating. I wouldn't think both of them are inter linked as a partner may lie about many things like saying he is at office when he is at his friend's house watching a movie. But cheating is something I would never be able to tolerate.

I cannot stand infidelity. The relationship loses its charms if you are cheating on your partner. Very true that lying to your partner also would head you towards the end of the relation. Bodhi

Yes. I agree with you. I don't like liars. I have this friend. She's a girl and she's only 17 years old. She has a husband and a son already. Her husband supports her studies and her son but I don't like what she's doing because she has another guy, a boyfriend. I'm not that kind of girl because I'm so loyal to my boyfriend but that girl, I don't like what she's doing. She has also told me that her husband is getting mad to her because he suspects her that she has somebody else and yes, its true. Another story is this. I had an ex-boyfriend and he's really a liar. After we broke up, she had a girlfriend and his girlfriend is a two timer but still, he tolerated her girlfriend to have another boyfriend besides him. He just wants to be with that girl so he just tolerated her to do it. What's the sense of having this girl? Maybe I think he just wants to have her as his girlfriend that he could introduce to somebody though he knows that this girl is just playing. I don't tolerate that kind of thing.

I guess you are referring to a relationship with a husband and wife. Well, I do not tolerate lying and infidelity. I believe these two are inter-related. A person lies to his partner because he had been unfaithful to the other. If a partner lies, he no longer has respect for his partner. It would be painful for the aggrieved party and this should not be tolerated.

I thinks it depends what kind of relationship, I don't like a friend with "big mouth", you know, If you tell him something, he will spread it everywhere, that will boring you someday. for girlfriend or wife, lying is not tolerated.

Were the same in believe my friend. Lying really make most partner should be avoided because this will be the reason of meddling the relationship. A relationship of couples should no lie and talk about something to avoid misunderstand