I need my love.....Please Pray for me....
By Drsunny21
@Drsunny21 (556)
India
December 1, 2009 12:11pm CST
Hi mylotters I had done few discussion abt my love here....As we are not now like lovers....coz actually before 2 months there was a misunderstanding between us but we didnt stop talking wth other but it became less.Means in a day she do or I do a 1-2 msg to each other...Like this 2-3 months passed and means yes we were far but still we were close...As her internship started she came to college...As her college is in my city.So we again talked but less and For 2-3 days i had got angry on her coz of the things she has done..And i thaught tht i will not talk wth her much...Before 2 days we had a 2 hrs chat in the night on ph.and I told her many things and she cried..I feel for her so i feel bad.And i talk wth love..And just yesterday we planned to go for a movie.So she and her 2 room mates came wth us.
We had gud chat yesterday and i saw her and my feelings jst came again after seeing her..As i was feeling before for her..Yesterday again I feel the same for her.In the theatre we was sitting beside each other..My hand was close to her hand and after sometime she holded my hand and I holded her and I feel I still love her so much...I just want to hold her...I thaught tht somehow i dont want to leave her hand and want to hold her hand forever.But actually her parents are searching a guy for a marriage of their cast only.And I m Christian and She is following Jainism..So here is the problem..And she did not want to go against her parents..So i never force her tht plz marry me or anythng..I understand her situation.
I love her really so much..I daily pray to God tht somehow she should be mine forever..I dont knw wht i m doing..But Please pray for me or jst please pray for her tht she remians happy forever..
2 responses
@Jennifer_lee_88 (589)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Hi Drsunny,
I will pray for you. I know how it feels to be in love and not be able to be with that person. It sucks, it hurts!
I don't think you should give up on her! If your lucky enough to find real love hold onto it, its a precious gift from god. If she makes you feel good who cares what her parents say, or what happened in the past. Forgive and forget my friend.
I can understand that her parent wont like it if you guys are together but dont let that hold you back or you will love her forever and could regret it later on. To just give up on it is unfair you you and her and whoever you both end up with. If her parents love her they will understand... they may be mad at first but eventually they will understand. Stand up for each other and your love for one another
I wish you the best of luck
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
2 Dec 09
Yes ur rght but the main problem is there only...I m with her only and i will be forever wth her,dont know how?Her parents didnt know abt us and she is afraid of telling her parents,coz here it will create big problem and She will be seen as a bad girl in the society and her family will be shamed and etc.Coz tht people will understand or not I dont know.I told her i will talk wth ur parents but she said no they will not understand and she says I dont want to get insulted from anyone...I m just praying somehow any miracle happens tht she says by herself or tell me to talk wth her parents and her parents accept us...Thank you...
@Jennifer_lee_88 (589)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
Remember god works in mysterious ways and if it is meant to be its meant to be. I still wouldn't give up on it but i understand why you guys are scared.
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
3 Dec 09
I am sorry to hear that. I wish you goodluck on everything and I hope that things will go for the best. If this issue cannot be solved, it's better to stop the relationship as soon as possible. The more time you spend together, the harder it will be to separate when the time will come. The suffering will just increase for both of you. You can always be close to her as a friend.
When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. - Alexander Graham Bell
Give yourself some time. goodluck
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
3 Dec 09
Yes ur rght...Rghtnow i m close to her as a frnd only and If it doesnt happen i will be forever wth her as a frnd.....Hoping for the best tht evrythng will be fine...Thank you...
