Do you think it's possible to be love and desired by everyone?

It is a reasonable dream to be loved and desired by all but the chances of that actually happening are not real. The fact of the matter is that everyone is slightly different making us each unique. Your uniqueness may be offensive to someone therefore making you undesirable to them. My desire is to be loved by those closest to me. I try my best not to offend anyone but that may not always be the case so therefore I have to simply put my best foot forward. And certainly someone who works hard to please everyone else will be disappointed because they will forget to please the most important person of all, themself.

Yes, it is possible to be loved and be desired by everyone especially when you have a great personality and when you know how to work well with people of varied outlooks, personas and all walks of life. It is a fact as well, that you cannot please everyone no matter what you do. You cannot control how people will react towards you. But have faith because it does wonders when you are consistently the same. I know of a friend who has boyfriend with Chinese roots. When they visited his family, the aunt was not smiling. But my friend broke off the ice by smiling, helping her when she needs help. Despite that, not even a smidgen of a smile. Only when they are married that the aunt revealed that he liked her nephew's wife because she has a great personality. Bottomline is, the only thing that you can control is yourself no matter what. And you can begin by smiling. Smiling does a lot of wonders to break the ice, regardless if you are applying for a job, meeting a new friend or neighbor. It's still possible to be liked regardless of the circumstance.