Have you ever planned something, but unfortunately, it has failed?
By b4balaji
@b4balaji (410)
India
December 3, 2009 10:51pm CST
We plan a lot of things, to complete them successfully. But even if something is planned right, we some time fail. It may have some unfortunate reasons, or set back.
Even if the things go according to the plan, if failures occur, we feel left alone in the middle of a desert.
How to overcome such a situation.
4 responses
@theonehush (959)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
personally i think of failure as a brand new start.. since you failed i think its a sign for you to be better.. dont think of failing as the end of the line.. failure is part of life and life is a huge highway.. you may not get what you want on this side of the road but there is something that will surely be for you in the long run.. and of course you cant always think things to be better and things to turn out the way they planned it to be.. sometimes we fail.. but sometimes it is for the better.. think of it as a new start to do better.. so if your fail keep trying and keep moving forward..
have a nice day.. 
@theonehush (959)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
being negative about it wont get you anywhere except downwards.. so yeah i always see things the other way around so that i may find a way to get up back on my feet again.. 
@redthaidevil (1047)
• Thailand
4 Dec 09
Yep, I plan things everyday and fail everyday. Sometimes I just need someone to actually be with me and help stop me from doing things. But alas, she is gone T_T
@veejay19 (3589)
• India
4 Dec 09
During my younger days when i was overenthusiastic and a bit reckless i used to plan a lot of things most of which did not give me results and lead to a lot of heartburn and disapointment.Later on as i grew up and became more wisr i realized that most of our plans go awry mainly due to lack of discipline and well thought out planning as well as lack of patience."Man proposes and God disposes"goes the saying which at least in my life has really come true. so now i don`t plan but do my work and leave the results to God
@anke101987 (135)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
It happens most of the time. We'd plan to get together, and it would get cancelled the last minute, or sometimes only a few would show up; to go to the movies etc. When I'm on the situation, like on the gathering and most never showed up, I'd still enjoy the company of those who are there. And then back to planning the same event again, hoping that everyone could make it. Sometimes, it's better to not plan at all, to just give short notices or doing house to house visit. I find it more enjoyable and not so disappointing as to planning then eventually failing.



