Do you think women should have standards when dating?
By anaaibachan
@lizbenetua (637)
Philippines
December 7, 2009 2:48am CST
Steve Harvey quoted in his book, Act like a Lady, Think Like a Man that "I'm sure if a woman laid out the rules- requirements early on and let her intended know that he could either rise up to those requirements or just move on." What can you say about this quote? Thanks for sharing your thoughts in advance!
5 responses
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
YES, women should have standards when dating..If men do have their standards, then women too and it is fair for both gender.
Setting standards like in dating give us the choice in option for freedom, wants, desires, dreams and aspirations..It even help you be reminded not to commit the same mistakes again based from past experiences..
Women who set standards in dating are much more wiser because she are able to choose the possible best partner for him and limit herself to circumstances in life she cannot meet..
They should also be given importance too like how Men wanted themselves be given importance..
and Freely let the person they are dating, know what are their wants and aspirations in life so that the man will be aware and seriously take the Woman with proper care on the feelings and doings he will might commit..
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Hello liz,
I think it is a must for every woman to have their rules when dating with someone.
Evey individual had their own choices of standards,and a man should follow the girls rule.
Well,it is an individual choice and decision,and it is the concern who can tell and say what are her rules then.
@veronizm (907)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Hi liz! I do agree that women should have standards when dating. But then again, a women should note that her standards should not be that high else, she'd end up being an old maid or marrying at a very late age. We should always remember that in our society, there are fewer men than women. But of course, this shouldn't stop a women from setting her standards when finding the right man, because then again if she does, she might end up being unhappy. So it's kind of like a balance thing. =)
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Yes, definitely.. Women should have standards when dating. She should let the man knows her rules, wants, and dislikes. I guess men like women who are strong in personality. It is a challenge to every man to have a woman who have standards.






