I have to shift my family

hi yugasini, this move must be difficult on you , firstly as moving house is a back breaking task, and secondly cutting off ties with a home thats been a home for so long and all the friends etc. But I can understand your need to move. If our children are anyplace other than home, we tend to worry so much, and it is so much better if parents are there to look after them and their needs. Im sure the boys will also be happy having a home and loving care in Hyderabad. Good luck friend and may your house warming ceremony be great.

I commend you, Yugasini, for wanting to be near your dear children. I am so blessed that all of my children and grandchildren and much of my extended family live nearby. Family should always try to help one another and stay in touch. It is so important! Karen

I have shifted house only once till now and that was such a nightmarish experience for me that I don’t wish this for anybody. Moving each and every item, from the smallest to the largest and then settling down all over again, getting to know a new place, the loneliness, the pangs of having to leave the earlier house…all these are very traumatic indeed but I think you are going to be near your kids and help them out, so maybe this will help you keep occupied. And I think you should go coz Hyderabad right now is boiling over Telengana…so its good if you are staying near your kids.

Unless you have some ties in your present place of living, like business, work etc., I strongly feel you should stay near your children. You may either stay in the same house or another house but stay in the same place. This way both of you can be of help to each other in case of necessities. Now-a-days, work culture is a heavy schedule. If you fall sick, as the age moves on, it is natural to get some sickness, children, in their hectic schedule and leave rules, find it hard to come to your place for help every time. For us also, travelling will be difficult.

I think that when you have to shift your family any distance it can be tough. Not only physically in that generally there's a lot to move or to do before the move, but also emotionally as well. I hope that you can find the transition from one place to another to be somewhat easy to handle. I moved only 20 minutes away from my old home, and it's been two years here and I'm very happy. Looking to hopefully get a home with my husband very soon, for now we live with his parents. Have a wonderful day.

Staying at a place for 50+ years is really amazing and it must be a very difficult decision taken by you to shift yourself to hyderabad I guess. But all is in the game and i wish you enjoy a settled life at Hyderabad. But watch out at this point of time due to boiling issues for telengana state, I am not sure whether there will be peace of life existing in Hyderabad.

Hi yugasini It is a wise decision that you have taken to shift to Hyd. to be with your children, but now the situation in Hyderabad is very tense. Wait for some time and once it becomes settled, then you can shift and live with your whole family including your children happily ever after.