Who are good to make friends offline or online?
By flower21
@flower21 (765)
Philippines
December 12, 2009 8:05am CST
I love to meet new friends and I prefer to have friends all over the world but then I am hesitate to be more open to true friendship fearing the online friends are all great pretender and some are pervert. I have friends offline but they are busy. Some suggest friends online is better too and even have more time for real friendship than offline friends. What do you think so is more best offline or online friends?
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6 responses
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
I think it is very hard to say that one could find real friends offline and the same things happen with online friends. mostly when things not become alright in online friends you have many option to reject them without being hurt personally as they live away from you. Wherein in terms of offline friends as you could see them even they changes their attitudes it would feel hurt being isolated or snob by them in cases their is an argument that exist. i could say I have few friends left as some are busy with their family and career.
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@Angelindisguise (378)
• India
12 Dec 09
Hi,
I Am good At Making Offline and Online friends .
Online Friends r Better :)
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Dec 09
hi flower, i love your avatar!
well i am a little conservative or to be frank a shy guy and so i don't easily make real life friends but i do know many people and have quite many friends, in fact most of the online friends are my real friends but i am more free making online friends i mean i am more open and make friends online easily, though i don't do that i have quite many online friends, well but i have to say mylot is quite a different place and i am as open as i can be and love to make friends here... 


@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi,friend,there is a chance for good or bad either offline or online..it is our luck to have a good friend who meets the definition of friend-A friend in need is a friend indeed..it is the same chance either men or women...all the best and have a nice time flower.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
12 Dec 09
hi,Don't throw me...i am a worth enough to make friendship....lol..

@aadi_87 (347)
• India
12 Dec 09
Hi!!
I would say I have been lucky both ways - I have got some great offline as well as internet friends.Offline friends are the one from my school,locality,college and coaching classes and I have been with them for long so I completely trust on them.As for the online friends I have made some really great friends on Orkut and Facebook and I know most of them for over 2 years now.We often catch up at weekends for a movie or birthday parties and they have been really good with me.They have always lended their support whenever needed and helped me with many of the things with their suggestions.I met my girlfriend online and surely is one of the best things that happened to me online,what better example can I give about online friendship :).Its also true that some people we meet online tend to be fake and some are even obnoxious but thankfully I haven't met with such people although my friends did experience it.As for the comparison I feel both are equal and friendship is friendship be it online or offline,the way you perceive it is all that matters :).Have a good day,take care!
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
fine for you and glad you like them and they like you too..wow, very good story having girlfriend online and myself not yet experience it. i like to have one too..lol..definitely love is fair both offline and online as long as two people fall in love sincerely and trust each other. then it is good too. have a nice day too..:)

@borg246 (539)
• Malta
12 Dec 09
I think both methods are very effective but keep in mind that online friend making can sometimes be dangerous because these supposed "friends" may not actually be telling you the truth about themselves. Where as in the real world, you can't trust those friends more because you know how they look, their personality, what they are like, share things with each other physically, meet his/her parents and so on.
So I think that having offline friends is better because they are more tustworthy and the danger of people telling you lies about what they like, what they are, they maybe also place a false photo is not there.
Mind you, I'm not saying that all your online friends are like this, but the risk is there.
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
12 Dec 09
I agree with you it is hard to trust people pretending to be real but in fact is hiding behind their real personality and only out to get a prey for their vicious plans. Though, other find consolation and comfort in online friendship as most offline friends are also busy with their life that they could not confine their true feelings. thanks.





.. i will be coming here when ever i find time, have a nice time flower.

