Do you judge the book by its cover?

@Fulltank (2882)
Philippines
December 17, 2009 11:22pm CST
"Do not judge the book by its cover" can be associated of course to a persons appearance. But at some point we never stand by this saying, How? Most of the time we do judge a persons appearance based on their appearance itself, such as sanitation and cultural accents or details. Am I right on this one? Or you do have another thoughts about this? I also judge them on the way they communicate (shyness, confidence, aggressiveness, passive, defensive, etc.) by the way they body language, by their facial expression, even in their vocal rise and pitch of voice.
4 responses
@cobradene (1171)
• India
18 Dec 09
It's pretty easy to observe a person and know what kind they are. Especially, the first thing I do is, look into their eyes. When I look into their eyes, I get their feelings, and also the energy of their whole being, and if they are speaking the truth. Eyes even tell if they are manipulative or aggressive or whatever. Eyes are the windows to the soul as they say. Just look into the eyes, and you will every character trait of the person you are involved with. Sometimes, you can even tell the things they have done, by catching the energy from the eyes, and they may be shocked at the revelation. Eyes say a lot about a person. The voice does say a lot, like you mentioned, the rise and the pitch, and a low voice etc.... Usually, when people realize that you may find out some hidden secret about them from the words they are speaking, you will notice a sudden fall in the pitch and a mumbling of words, and they would try to fish for more words to cover up and suddenly change the topic. I go deep into their subtle energies and realize a lot of things. Sometimes, I don't even see a person, and if somebody narrates to me about their personal experiences with somebody, and also tell me what they spoke with them, I catch the energy from the person's words whom I haven't seen, and also pick up the energy of that person's aura from my friends, and give a detailed analysis of their character or thought patterns, and it often if not 100% accurate, I would say I am at least 60 to 70% accurate. But it takes sometime to introspect. I observe people's style of words, and try to introspect their way of thinking and behaviour from the way they speak.... and then analyze their character. Style of words, and also attitude and approach towards work, humor, sport and all other things associated with the former, is very important to analyze the character of a person. If a person can't take humour in good sense, can't play a sport in a sportive manner, tries to manipulate the game and cheat to win, or can't accept a defeat and becomes too touchy and childish about it, all these things reveal how their attitude towards real life will be. One thought energy in the mind, builds the character of a person, and gives birth to various thought patterns, and these thought patterns in turn produce mental and physical behaviour. If you can detect the root cause of every branch of thought, and action, where they arise from, then it would be easier to the judge and understand the person as a whole.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
22 Dec 09
Yeah, the eyes too. When I look at people whom I first met on the eyes, I can tell if the person is shy type or with a strong personality. Not accurate, but still a good way of judging by by the looks.
@bhav27 (442)
• India
18 Dec 09
no i never judge the book with it's cover and i never judge a person from his appearance because until you don't read the concept of the book how can you judge that the book is good or bad , don't just get fascinated by it's cover also see what is there inside the book ,read the book till ed then make any decisions , same in the case of a person don't judge him from his appearance , know him , try to know what kind of person he/she is , what if a person is ugly but kind from heart? then you made wrong judgment ain't you?
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
No,I am not a judgmental person,We really dont know what is inside the pages unless you've read it from cover to cover.With regards to a person I really dont' judge coz,I dont know his/her inner part or what is in his/ her heart. unless i can see how they act. Thanks,Good Luck!
• India
18 Dec 09
sometimes i do.... cover has to do a lot on the publicity of a book...i feel so...