Would you try to make the girl/boy that just broke up with you jealous?
By Renhard
@Renhard (3471)
Jamaica
December 18, 2009 8:17am CST
Me and my girl broke up one evening and i was so angry. She did something bad and i did not like it. I was so angry. In about 2 hours I got another girl but the difference between these two girls are that.
1)the new girl(same age) is older than the girl(2 yrs younger) i broke up with earlier.
2)the new girl is one of the hottest girl in school. She was ranked top 5 and so MANY MEN were after her.
3) the new girl is way more shape than the younger one.
I tried not make my ex jealous. But since it was that girl everyone was jealous. Who wasn't jealous, envy me.
2 responses
@neo_matrix (884)
• India
18 Dec 09
well thats your outlook since the feeling of rejection/hurt was recent for you.but trying to make that person jealous doesnot solve any purpose. leave her to fate and move on with your new friend .treat your new friend the way she deserves and not compare her with your ex. which is unfair.be happy with yourself and not try jealous to your ex.just a suggestion on my part
@Renhard (3471)
• Jamaica
18 Dec 09
Thanks. When me and the new girl just started we nearly fade away because she thought i still cared about the old one. So we nearly broke up. So now I ask the old one to be my friend because i don't want any enemies and let us just move on with life. She agreed. So i am now only concerned with the new girl, the love of my life.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
Possibly if that happened for me if not intentional then I just have to leave it that way but not making him jealous again.
For me and ended relationship is almost done and I do not gamble again to have a second time especially when I have no mistakes done to end up a relationship for an immature reasons.
But in your case, I cannot blame your actions because whatever you have done is one of your diverting strategies to overcome the past relationship and you must be given also the chance to have the freedom to be single and move on again with life.
Everybody deserves to be happy especially those who knows how to love and be loved. IF any case you are friends again, I am sure she had regrets of letting you go and that is her reward for whatever things she might have committed to you.
At least both of you now are peaceful already and had realized many things from the past and now, correcting and improving yourselves more in new path in life where both of you go in different ways. But still.. memories both of you still remains..
