why a husband not a good friend?

This is a very sensitive thing. I always felt bad about this kind of things happening. I think, mostly it happens due to misunderstanding or not having patience to understand the other point of view. It is not true that husband cannot be a good friend. There are some couple who are very good friends for each other. Even at the old age they do seem having an excellent rapport. And, I think your parents too have a rapport but it is just that your father is not having patience. Just let your father understand how much you and family care for him and how nice it would be if only he is a bit patient and calm. He will get the point! Correct communication is the key to everything. Happy mylotting!