if u love someone set him free?? CAN YOU REALLY DO THAT??

@novelcai (600)
Philippines
December 22, 2009 9:34am CST
hi there guys! well yes its part of the song. if you love someone set him free? mmmmm what can you say about this? if your in one situation (love triangle etc..) what would you do? are you going to fight for it till the end or you going to give way? outch!
4 responses
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Dec 09
well, you cannot force someone to love you right?..so it's always better to set it free instead of hurting each other's feelings and making each others life miserable.Love cannot be one sided.It may be hard to let it go but time heals.Who knows, you may find somebody much better and it is possible that you may fall in love again.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
23 Dec 09
Well..I guess even if I have feelings left for my ex, I may not ever go back to him again.The reason is..he left me when I needed him, right?(if that is the situation) He left me hurting and in pain.So, why should I let him again enter my happy life..or should I say, why should I allow him to hurt me again and play with my feelings..But if the situation is we broke up because of some unknown reasons and we still love each other, then I guess, I don't have any right to play around with someone else's feelings(Present boyfriend),I should consider what is best for three of us.Either I go back to my old love or live with my present.I guess,it is a very confusing situationI don't want to be in such a situation, I am happy with my love life
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
your lucky for being happy in your love life and lucky again because your not in a very confusing situations. its really very hard. yeah i love my x that much but lots of pain and heartaches i gain from him ( love is blind ) and now he is coming back and he i can say that he changed already. mmmmm or just for now? goshhhh mery xmas,,,
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
hi there.. yeah your right love cnt be one sided. but what if love has three sides? your in love with someone already and your x-love comeback and now ready to fight his love for you. what would you do? who you going to choose? merry xmas and happy love
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
23 Dec 09
It is better to set the other person free, because if s/he truely loves you s/he will surely come back to you and if s/he does not, it means s/he was not in love with you.
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
mmm yeah your right but what if the time he come back to me , i already move on and started to live my life without him, and what if there is already someone who wants make me happy by giving all the love that i need.. another complicated situation..
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
24 Dec 09
I think the one who left you do not deserve the chance in comparison to the existing one, provided he is true to you.
• United States
22 Dec 09
It is very difficult to let someone go when you are truely in love with that person. I dont know if i could do it or not. I can think of many situations when it would be best to split apart even when you love someone but i dont know how people can just break the ties of love.
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
sometimes love makes are life very much complicated and hard. at 1st we become happy because we know the feeling of in love. but like what ive always said lots of things happens in our life which is not part of the plan. and sometimes we really need to make a decision even its really hard. thnks for the comment
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
Set someone free although you love him, it hurts but it's so true. If you let go, and he doesn't come back, then at least you weren't wasting your time. Best you find out now, then later, after you put more time and effort into it. If you let go, and he loves you and wants to be with you , he'll find his way back. Then, whatever problems and insecurities you might have had before, will go away, because you'll know that he's exactly where he wants to be. If he doesn't back, it may break your heart, it may be hard to get over, and it might take some times. But you will never find the one that cant live without you, if you're wasting your time on the one that can.