what will you do to the ones who keep you waiting??
By Savedeath
@Savedeath (255)
China
December 24, 2009 12:43am CST
almost every time,no matter we were going to class,arriving at the appointing place on time or went to some activities,one friend of mine always keep me waithing,and i have told you don't be late next time,he always said yes but still made the same mistake,some times i was really angry and wondering that why i have to affilicat with this friend.
Do you have the same experience??sharing me how you treat that please.
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6 responses
@srganesh (6339)
• India
24 Dec 09
There will one in all groups.They don't mind to be punctual and are always late.Sometimes they don't even feel sorry for that.They just take people for granted.If they are good friends we have to adjust with them.Or you can ask them to be some fifteen minutes before the actual time and even if they are late,they will be in time.
@Savedeath (255)
• China
24 Dec 09
even i was very angry with him for his late but we are good friends,when we were together we had lot to talk.that was also the reason that why we still are friends,but he was very stubborn and very few to accept others' ideas which are about his shortage,i really hate this very much.
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@srganesh (6339)
• India
24 Dec 09
Then you have to accept him with his negative qualities too.Friendship is one another relation without any conditions.Only then it can last for ages without any break.Some grow up like that without thinking of it as a bad habit to be without punctuality.Just try to call him a little bit before time as I had told.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 09
such as the proverb says, waiting is a boring job. Make or have an appointment with a friend who likes late really annoying. if me, More better do not have to make an appointment with them instead of having to wait in a long time
@Savedeath (255)
• China
24 Dec 09
if he is just one of my normal friend i would very like to do that,but we have been known for three years,not easy to refuse.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
30 Sep 10
Hi. Savedeath. I don't often do this to others. But my husband may do this to his father. His father will come by and pick him up in the mornings and he will not be ready and dressed to go. I would fuss at my husband about this and he will be getting up out of the bed to leave. I think that he should be on time when someone is ready to come and get him. To me, it is very rude to keep someone waiting. I will have to at least try being on time more. Or I will apologize and do better next time.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
24 Dec 09
Hello Save.
When people frequently disregard another by keeping them waiting and waiting, I think the best thing is NOT to wait. If they miss the appointed time to meet by more than a few minutes and do this often, go on without them. No more waiting.
Karen
@lahari (133)
• India
29 Dec 09
I think I understand your situation pretty well as I am also facing this problem for the past few years and the bigger problem is that she is my closest friend! This can drive you nuts! I get so irritated while waiting for her that that every time I decide this is gonna be the last time I'm waiting for her but whenever she arrives and we start talking I forget about the previous anger I was feeling for her! Every time she comes and says "ok,I won't be late next time!" But the next time hasn't arrived yet!!
As a remedy to it,I've now started telling her the time to meet 20 minutes earlier than I'm supposed to go there! This is helping me for the time being as both of us are reaching there at the same time approximately. So you can also try this out! Best Of Luck!
@krnavtr (285)
• India
2 Aug 10
I get irritate to wait for so long.I have a friend,she takes time to dress up her and do make up.I gets ready soon but she makes me wait a lot.She never know that i am waiting for her sake but instead she stays in her own world.I have to shout to her always but never improves.Sometimes i get angry and leaves her behind.Sometimes i understand that she is a slow girl but sometimes i get angry.
