If somebody wants to give up something even if their life,how could we do?
By zhouxi
@zhouxi (1752)
China
January 5, 2010 7:50pm CST
Some friends of us some times do silly things.they want give up something very usefull and worth.they even wish to give up themselves.when we meet such situation,How could we do?
3 responses
@DCLehnsherr (1037)
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6 Jan 10
Hi Zhouxi,
As a person who constantly thinks about life and once really considered getting rid of mine, I would say that the best thing such a person can do is try! I know it is stupid right, but that was when my life changed. I had a counsellor at one stage who really helped me, but until I took myself by the hand and showed myself what the end really would be like, I didn't understand. That experience though, and the fear that came with it, taught me to value what I have and so I have come to love life and want to enjoy it so when the time finally comes and I do die, I will be happy.
I am slightly different mentally to other's though so this could just be a me thing, but I think if someone is like that just be nice to them and give them time to come around. I think they just need to know someone cares and they have a reason to live. But fundamentally the decision to live has to be theirs. You can never force someone to love life, and the more you do the more they will probably turn away. Just give them hope and their mind will hopefully take care of the rest
Dranz
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
7 Jan 10
Hi Dranz, Wish you a very happy new year. :) Where have you been? Andromeda? LOL. Well, first and foremost, let me assure you, you are no different from the rest of us out here. Each of us has own set of trials and tribulations. We do at times feel overwhelmed with our set. I went through that phase as well Dranz. Just because many of us didn't approach consellors, doesn't make us any different from you. We did get help from friends Dranz, remember. So net net, we are alike. :)
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@vandana7 (102698)
• India
6 Jan 10
Hi zhouxi, that is a tough call, how to you tell another person that giving up is not the right way. :) May be showing the person another person who has much lesser in life and making him or her feel more blessed will help. I think that makes me feel yes, god's not exactly neglected me. He is busy right now. He will come to me soon enough. That is how I tell myself when I am about to give up. :)
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@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
6 Jan 10
Well, for me I would give up everything but not my life. Maybe blood donations for me is alright. I love my existence, there are people around me who needs me and so I need them to. I will give what I have as long it will be a contribution like other needs. Only God can has the right over my existence.
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