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myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children 3 years ago

It is morning now as I write this and last night my 10 year old daughter had a friend stay the night with us. He is a male friend and as we also have my mother staying with us, he had to sleep in the lounge room.

We all went to bed last night at around the same time and left him to go to sleep in the middle of the lounge room floor on a mattress. My mother woke in the middle of the night at around 2 0r 3am to find this boy asleep with the light on. A Sony Playstation controller on his lap and the TV and Playstation on! confused

It turns out he brought his own game as well as the game that was on the TV at the time, we do not even have! He went to some lengths to have this little late night play as the Playstation was not even connected to the TV at the time, so he had to set it all up! shocked

We are all awake now and he is still fast asleep amongst everyone in the lounge and I just received a call from his mother to say that she will be here soon to pick him up. I am just about to go and give him a kick and wake him up! lol

Do you think this is rude of the boy to do this in our home or just funny. Should I be upset?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. Janey1966 (2682)   ranked 935 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

No, you shouldn't be upset but maybe bill his Mum for the electric haha! It's amazing how kids can just set up games like that in the blink of an eye and we would be sat there for hours messing about with electronics that his generation take for granted. Very clever boy if you ask me!thumbup


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

It seems that I jumped the gun in posting this discussion. doh

I had just been told the story by my my mum and was on here at the time, so I thought 'What a great discussion'...LOL

It turns out that my wife got up after I fell asleep and saw that he was crying. cry

He said he was scared so my wife put it on for him to calm him down and help him get to sleep. It turned out that he watched a movie through The Playstation as sometimes our DVD player does not work and we have to use The Playstation to watch them! rolleyes


myLot reputation of 98/100. Janey1966 (2682)   ranked 935 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Haha!! Awww the poor lamb, bless him! That's so sweet what your wife did for him, what a star. At least you know he doesn't suffer from insomnia now lol.lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. Janey1966 (2682)   ranked 935 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Well, actually he probably does suffer from insomnia...in strange houses. Haha!lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

After speaking to his parents when they picked him up, it seems like this is a fairly common thing for him to do. Stay up late and then sleep all morning. He will have to get out of the habit fast as the six week break from school is over in two days time. A new school year is just about to begin! thumbuphappy


myLot reputation of 98/100. Janey1966 (2682)   ranked 935 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Oh dear! I wouldn't like to be his neighbours on his first school day when he "kicks off!" That's what happens when parents give in to their kids (not like I'm an expert or anything) I don't even have any lol.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

You are right, boundaries need to be set by parents, or the kids will never learn responsibility! thumbup


myLot reputation of 98/100. Janey1966 (2682)   ranked 935 out of 2,145 in children  2 years ago

Thanks for the BR, it's much appreciated.thumbup

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2. myLot reputation of 98/100. se7enthbird (4975)   ranked 119 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

i dont think you need to be upset, but next time check his bag if he needs to sleep pover again. for you can check if he brough something again that will make him sleep late. playing playstation in their own home... im sure is restricted also and has curfew so i guess he only did that there. why not ask his mom and that so his mom is also aware of what his son did.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Thanks for your comment but it seems that I jumped the gun in posting this discussion and was wrong. dohrolleyes

(See the comment that I left above for Janey)

He was not playing a game, but watching a movie. My mum did not know the difference as the movie had stopped and would have been on the menu screen. lol

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3. myLot reputation of 93/100. highflyingxangel (9336)   ranked 411 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

I wouldn't take offense, it's actually quite funny. The poor kid was probably bored and it obviously helped him sleep so I wouldn't be too concerned. I'd probably mention it to his family though and see if they knew about it or have any ideas as to why he decided it would be a good idea to play at your house.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Thanks for your thoughts. thumbup

I made a mistake though. shocked

It seems that I jumped the gun in posting this discussion. doh (See the comment that I left above for Janey at number one in this discussion)

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4. myLot reputation of 100/100. JenInTN (10108)   ranked 328 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

LOL..it is kind of funny. Rude too but he either does that while he's at home on the weekend or he's taking advantage of the chance to get to. I remember being little and my cousin having the latest gaming stuff and since I didn't have it at home..i played it as long as I could while I had the chance..lol..He was living it up at your house huh? Take care.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Thanks for your comments Jen. I made a mistake though. It seems that I jumped the gun in posting this discussion. doh (See the comment that I left above for Janey at number one in this discussion)

LOL, you sound like my son. He used to spend hours playing computer games at our friends homes before we had them ourselves. lol

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. jugsjugs (6366)   ranked 18 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

To me this sounds like a normal child as i have 6 children and at least two of them do not go to sleep at the right time as well as they are awake half the night.Even if another child was to stay here that child would also be awake and if there was a games console for them to play on then the child would no matter what.I think there is no need to think the child is rude or for you to be angry.I am sure that if your child was to stay at a friends house they would have also been awake until early hours of the morning as well.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

It actually turned out that I was misinformed and it turned out that my wife put a DVD on for him to watch as he fell asleep as she got up after I went to sleep and found him scared. My mother thought it was a game as it was being played in the Playstation console and had stopped on the menu screen! loldoh

Next time I will have to find out ALL the facts before posting a discussion about it! thumbup

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6. myLot reputation of 97/100. lelin1123 (9050)   ranked 34 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

So I'm gathering he is about the same age as your daughter. So with that I don't think its funny I think it was quite rude of him especially leaving the equipment on all night. These kids today have no regard for others and no manners at all. That tells me his parents have not taught him how to act at other people houses.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

I agree with you that some kids have no respect for others when staying at someone else's house. We have had some really odd kids stay here over the years and I assumed this was more of the same when I was misinformed on what had happened. sad

It seems that I jumped the gun in posting this discussion. doh

It turned out that my wife got up after I fell asleep and saw that he was crying and that he was scared so she put a DVD on for him to calm him down and help him get to sleep.

It turned out that he watched a movie through The Playstation as sometimes our DVD player does not work and we have to use The Playstation to watch them! rolleyes


myLot reputation of 97/100. lelin1123 (9050)   ranked 34 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Oh poor thing that is a totally different story then. Oh so he is not a rude kid. Nice to hear that. Take care!


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Thanks, no he is not rude, but could do with some boundaries. thumbup

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7. myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (11930)   ranked 251 out of 2,145 in children   3 years ago

It is rude but being a kid he can get away with it and it is easier to see the amusing side! This is the reason I feel reluctant to have a Playstation in the house although my husband has mentioned getting one often ‘for our daughter’ yeah...Sure! One of my friends barely sees her husband because he is almost always glued to the thing! As far as your young friend goes, I would mention it to his parents but I would not be too upset about it, he obviously knows what he’s doing to have everything set up like he did and let’s face it there are many adults out there asleep on their Playstation as we speak!


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Hi Paula, thanks for your comments. We resisted getting one for years, but finally we got one after some friends of ours moved overseas and gave theirs to our kids along with most of their games! I had always enjoyed playing those games, so I had mixed feelings about getting one and so we ended up keeping it, but with rules that it was only for weekend use and never on a school day!

We now have a Nintendo Wii as well, but we were happier about that type of gaming console as the kids move around more playing the games and they can actually keep fit using them! Plus my son saved up for it himself! thumbup

I actually made a mistake though. shocked
It seems that I jumped the gun in posting this discussion. doh

(See the comment that I left above for Janey at number one in this discussion)


myLot reputation of 100/100. paula27661 (11930)   ranked 251 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

It's good to have rules with it, that's for sure. My sister has a Wii and my daughter is begging for one, I am tempted because it's great fun, we've been dancing, singing, playing tennis, bowling...You name it, when we've visited and the whole family loves it so we may get that instead of a PlayStation when we can afford it!

Looks like the poor kid was not being rude at all, of well, he would have got away with it anyway, I think...happy


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

He is a pretty good kid although a bit too much of a free spirit for my liking, he needs some boundaries in my opinion. thumbup The Wii is much more of a whole family console in my opinion. I like the playstation games better, but the console is more of a personal thing and not as social. happy

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. thedailyclick (2575)   3 years ago

Do you know when I was that age I would never have had the audacity to set up someone elses playstation and play on it till I dropped off without there permission. Well actually playstations weren't around when I was that age, although the old Atari games systems were, but likewise I wouldn't have just watched TV either without them saying it was okay first.

I suppose it's just a sign of the times where children no longer are taught to respect other people's possession or behave properly when staying over, or should I say some children are not taught these basic manners.

I don't blame you for feeling upset and I hope you mentioned the childs inappropriate behaviour to their parent when they picked them up and embarassed him in the process.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Thanks for commenting. I agree with what you are saying but it actually turned out that I was misinformed and it turned out that my wife put a DVD on for him to watch as he fell asleep as she got up after I went to sleep and found him scared. My mother thought it was a game as it was being played in the Playstation console and had stopped on the menu screen. doh

Next time I will have to find out ALL the facts before posting a discussion about it! thumbuplol

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9. myLot reputation of 93/100. cherishxbunny (1423)   3 years ago

I read what you said your wife did for the kid, that's so sweet of her to do!! I know a lot of times when I was at other peoples' houses, I was definitely scared. Hell, I'm 22, almost 23 now, and in my own home, I'm still a little frightened at night, but nobody ever stopped me when I was crying. Nobody ever gave me anything to calm down. They just said 'You're just hearing the cats, the dogs, the ferrets.', 'It was just the wind.' lol Anyways, that was sweet of your wife to do. happy

Although, had this been the actual situation, I think it may have been rude if a child were to actually do it in a strangers' house without asking. To do it at home, from what I've seen, is just normal behavior. I've done it at home (PlayStation is the only thing I can play though cause I have Epilepsy but certain PlayStation games don't have the same patterns as say Nintendo does so it doesn't invoke any seizures), my stepbrother has, my cousins have...I don't know any teenage kid who hasn't stayed up late playing video games at least once, regardless of what the big grown-ups think! lol However, like I said, if it were to actually happen at a strangers house without asking, then yes, it would have been rude.


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3395)   ranked 154 out of 2,145 in children  3 years ago

Thanks for your kind comments. happy

I agree that it would have been rude to do that in someone else's home and that is why I was a little shocked at the time I had heard it, although I did find it a little amusing! lol

I have even sat up until all hours playing play-station as an adult, when I was in my mid twenties. Wow, I did not realise that certain games affected people with epilepsy like that. shocked


myLot reputation of 93/100. cherishxbunny (1423)  3 years ago

Don't worry, we're all human. We all make miskates. (Joke) I have stayed up all night playing those mystery games where you have to find out all the extra clues...it kills me not to know whodunnit lol Yeah, when I was little, Nintendo was one thing I played A LOT, until I was diagnosed with Epilepsy and literally had a controller ripped out of my hand. I was very young when it happened. I remember my biological fathers' mother coming in a room where I was playing Nintendo and she took the controller away and said "Her official diagnosis is Epilepsy. She can't play this and she has to take pills." Years later when PlayStation came out, my biological father made a big deal about how the patterns are different and okay for someone with Epilepsy to play. However, it's not well-advertised that it is alright for us, which is a shame, because it's true that we're okay. Although, there's still certain games on PlayStations that probably are not okay to watch. If the patterns, colors, and flashing are similar to things like Mario, then it's a no-go, but if the animation is say, more like Tony Hawk, I'd be alright because the flashing is minimal. Watching Nintendo games is like putting someone like me in front of a strobe light, watching PlayStation does nothing. I'm thankful for that. That way, I can still play video games. I have not been defeated. Bwahaha. [em]thumbsup[/em]


myLot reputation of 93/100. cherishxbunny (1423)  3 years ago

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