Thank God my mother is getting a divorce! Please pray for her!  

Hi Notlistening. This man has done nothing but try to get into my mother in laws pocket since he met her. She told us that after he married her that all he could do is spend her money. He is on a fixed income and didn't spend a single penny on their home since she married him. He spends his money on junk. She is one lady that don't like any junk around her home. This man has done nothing but pile up junk all around her home. She owned one home and he kept telling her she needed to move away from her son (my husband) cause he was jealous of the time the would spend together. We would go over there and he would be right in their faces so they couldn't talk about anything. I guess he was afraid of what my husband would tell her on him. My husband had dealt with this man several years ago. He done nothing but destroy things since they have been together. He works for his son once in a while and spends that money on junk too. Then will have the Gaul to go ask her for her credit card. Well this morning I am hoping and praying was the last straw. He wants her to sell her tractor she has had for years so he can spend the money on something else. I have never heard this woman say any cuss words but today she cussed him out and set her foot down. We both have been praying that she would wake up and see what he was doing. She said this morning she was really thinking she should get a divorce. She told him on Christmas (when he threw a fit and made her move) that in 6 months if he didn't change it was over. Well the other day she changed her will and she told us this morning that he has done nothing but gripe about it and today was it. He thought he was going to get both homes she owns and all her money and give it to his children I guess. Her health has done nothing but go down hill since she married him. She just got sick right after they were married. I think she would be better off without him. She used to travel all the time but since she married him she hasn't been able to do anything she used to do. And that isn't like her. She has always been active and with her health these days she isn't able to do many of these things.

Hi Thoroughrob. She does deserve the best. She raised all of her children by herself. She worked as a beautician she had her own shop in Florida and did quite well. She took every dime she could and saved and scrimped to make sure she could retire in easy. This SCUM BALL has done nothing but try his best to get into her wallet that is all he has thought about since they were married. Bet when he met her all he could see was dollar signs. She is a great Lady and deserves a better man then this guy. I won't call him a man cause he isn't nothing but a low life SCUM BAG. I would never marry to get someones money. It is love for me and that is all I would marry a person for.

Hi Cream. Your right this man is a scrub and a free loader. I wish something would have saved her the time and effort she put into this marriage. He is a SCUM BALL. We tried to talk to her but she wouldn't see it. But thank God she is seeing it before he kills her and or spends everything she has worked for all her life. She is a good woman and deserves better. She has spent more money on fixing then she has been able to spend. She had worked all her life and saved money and this man seen that house and thought he was going to get all of her stuff. Thank God she seen what a SCUM BAG he is and is now really thinking about a divorce. I pray it is soon though we think he has been poisoning her. Her health had been pretty good before she got married and now she has done nothing but go down hill. His last couple of wives died shortly after they were married. Next time I see that preacher I am going to point blank ask him if he knew what we suspect. He said he didn't want to do it cause of the fact that the last couple of wives he had died shortly after they were married. I guess he knew those women too.

Hi RachelleNH. Thank you for your prayers. I can't see how anyone that claims to love someone can do them any wrong. If you love someone I think it is only right you give 100% of what ever it takes. I don't understand people that think when they are married they don't have to do anything to help each other.

Hi Lelin. I am happy that she has decided to get out of this before he destroys her life any more. I can't wait till she finally tells this LOSER USER to hit the road. She keeps telling him she is getting sick and tired of his BULL and he keeps it up. I don't think he thinks she will go through with it. I think he is trying to figure out a way to make her pay him for his time in this marriage. You know like alimony or something like that. He is a SUCM BAG DOG LYING USER he tries to use everyone. I let him know right after they got married he acted real friendly to me and I just made it real clear he had nothing to say to me that I would be interested in hearing. When he comes over I move away. He knows I can't stand his UGLY USING DOG SELF. That is I guess why he don't try to talk to me much.

I seriously can't wait till you write to say that he is out of the picture completely. That your mom is no longer in danger of losing everything or God forbid her life. Everything you have stated in your earlier discussions could have been taken from a lifetime movie that I have seen so many of. Take care and good luck to all of you.

Hi Lelin. Thanks she has told him he is on his way out. He has straighten up his act a bit. I think he realizes he is going to be out on the street soon. It does remind me of lifetime movies I have seen. I have been so worried about her, but she is getting a lot better. I can hardly wait till this man is gone too. I think she is giving him a chance to make a few bucks to move on. He has been working for his son and has been saving every dime he makes. So soon I hope and pray.

I'm glad to hear things are going in the right direction. Good Luck to all of you and God Bless. Let me know when he is gone so I can seriously Thank God.

Hi Sknsknskn. Auctually this is my mother in law. And if you would read some of the other discussions I wrote about this man you would see why I want her to divorce him. Her health has gone down since she has been with him and I think he might be doing something to make her sick. She has gotten a lot better since she told him he wasn't getting anything if she dies.