Have you ever accused or mistaken that YOU are having and affair....

Yes, and my boyfriend also accused me of having an affair with his best friend. It's easy to defend myself since there isn't really anything wrong going along. I try to explain by saying they might be over thinking things and placing their doubts and paranoia first before thinking rationally. It does stain friendships a bit, but I guess it's inevitable. Anyway, it doesn't matter much though, as long as my friend is happy and me with my boy friend. Regards.

I don't recall being accused by anyone of having an affair. Wait, let me rephrase that: I don't recall anyone who mattered accusing me of being unfaithful. I heard the chirping of a very bitter individual who really had a personal grudge against me, saying something about me once. The very accusation and it's source wasn't worth the bean burrito I was eating at the time.

I had no such relationsor affairs with the friends's wives, sisters and mothers.I never doubted my wife alos in this regard. So my own experience is very limited. But I heard a lot about such affairs. Somebody had an affair with the friends mother, some had with the friends, sister etc.... I consider this as a cheating of the friendship

Hi. cloud31. No. I have never been accused of something like this. To keep myself from being into situations as this, I will not be around my friend's husband all of the time, to be accused of something like this. In middle school, a girl did want to fight me because I was going with a guy that she was going with at the same time. I told her that I did not know that she was going with this guy too. So, he was cheating on us both. And she became really jealous, and she wanted to fight me because of this. I told her that I did not know that they were going with each other. I told her that all that he wanted was her p**** anyway. I also told her that I was not going to fight her over him, but if she hits me, I will hit her a** back. I was about, 13 or 14 years old when I told her this. I was waiting for her to hit me, because I had something that was hot and fierce waiting that was for her!

I had this very good friend, he ws like a brother to me. My hubby knew him very well and they have been friends as well. One day his wife took me on in front of a lot af people and told me that we had an affair. I was so shocked, stood there like the cat got my tongue. And one thing no one should ever do, is to take me on, when my husband is around. I actually had to take him out of the shop, as he really took her on, very bad. I broke that friendship, just to have some peace. That really broke my heart. I miss my dear friend, but i will not be the reason for their breaking up.

No my friend never i was accused and never in future too!! I am happily married to the same man when i was 16, it is 46th ear of our marriage running now, it is arranged marriage, by our parents.. Thanks for sharing Happy posting, cheers. Namastey. Kalyani