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myLot reputation of 98/100. abitcurious (505)   ranked 941 out of 26,919 in people 3 years ago

perfectionist, backseat driver and obsessive. I've been called that a few times. But I never get hurt. I have some things that I really need to know every little detail about because I'm afraid of the consequences if I don't get it right.

I do have an aversion to being too controlling about trivial things. I wonder what people like most having control of. Money? relationship? Job? Vases and what nots?

There must be something that freaks us out if everything is amiss about it.

For me its mostly about a job. I'm quite specific and I can't abide it if not everyone is on the same page. It doesn't matter if you disagree, just voice it out so that can be addressed in the process of things.

 

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tags:  control, honest, job, life, obssesions
 
1. myLot reputation of 99/100. lilaclady (22746)   3 years ago

To be honest I think I am, I certainly like to be in control of my own life I think that is why I like being single and sometimes I tend to get a little controlling with others as well but I try not to.


myLot reputation of 98/100. abitcurious (505)   ranked 941 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

I just laugh when I notice someone slowly get annoyed at me. Then I'd stop. Forget that I'm stopping, and start all over again. harhar.

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. The_Lamb_Lies_Down (6932)   3 years ago

Yes, I am.thumbup

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myLot reputation of 98/100. abitcurious (505)   ranked 941 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

the problem is I don't know how to use it. demmit. I've waited for this.


myLot reputation of 95/100. The_Lamb_Lies_Down (6932)  3 years ago

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myLot reputation of 98/100. abitcurious (505)   ranked 941 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

aha!!! such a nice guy you are. now I can stalk you while you stalk miss dawn.ninja

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myLot reputation of 95/100. The_Lamb_Lies_Down (6932)  3 years ago

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3. davidshin (92)   ranked 14,447 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

For me, I have to know what I'm getting into, the situation. For example, if my family is taking me somewhere, and I don't know where were going, I would ask under they tell me, and if they don't I would get really frustrated and mad. I like to know the situation before putting myself into the game, if you know what I mean ^_^.


myLot reputation of 98/100. abitcurious (505)   ranked 941 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

I get you. But sometimes I control myself with that specially during special occasions. I'd hate to disappoint my family and friends if their thinking of surprises. I'm afraid some of my employers in my writing jobs get tired of me because I ask too many questions before I start a project.blush

I'm even surprised that some of them hire me again.

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4. myLot reputation of 40/100. vanitasuri (313)   ranked 8,007 out of 26,919 in people   3 years ago

Well I prefer to do everything with my heart totally in it whether it be cooking or teaching my child or buying vegetables. I am very clear in my mind what I am to do and how I am to do it. That way I enjoy the task I am doing. even after travelling for 5-6 hours, on reaching home if my husband asks for home cooked food, I am able to oblige him and serve well cooked meal within 20-30 minutes only as I do even my cooking with planning. So u can say in a way I am a perfectionist.


myLot reputation of 98/100. abitcurious (505)   ranked 941 out of 26,919 in people  3 years ago

I'm amazed at how you could still have the energy and enthusiasm to cook even after traveling for long hours! That is really something. I agree on planning ahead and having back up plans. It never fails me and I can still be flexible and adapt if needed.

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