Do u believe that there is true love after marriage?  

Nice answer o.O""

I'm actually having a problem with committing myself to one guy right now. I can fall in love with someone and be really into them, but after a while I would drift of to other men. I guess it's because I'm actually attractive enough that guys fawn over me even when I have a boyfriend and stuff, and if I deem my boyfriend at the time to be lacking in some way even though I love him, I will look for those qualities in my admirers and sort of just... drift away. =/

I really hope to have a real committed relationship one day, but I don't think I can even if I wanted to and it makes me sad.

It might seem a little hard but actually there are some ways that could help in order to make your commitment and relationship with your boyfriend strong. However, before that, you have to accept the fact that each and everyone have their own flaws so if you found one, two, or probably a lot of flaws in your boyfriend, don't try to look such perfection from somebody else. Instead, help your boyfriend eliminate such flaw/s. It cuts both ways, first, he'll be aware about his flaws and second, you'll be able to help him and in the process has become an instrument of growth for him. That's what relationships after all, it's a stage of growth of two persons towards maturity and in the process molding them to become better persons to be with later in the future. So now, here are some of the tips that I could share in order to at least deepen and give more meaning to your relationship. First of all, look for a man with great character. By great, I don't mean that he should be perfect because there's no such person as perfect. What I mean by great character is that he's values are grounded very well and he's got some principles in life (right principles that is). A person who's got great principles can easily change their flaws and one of the things that they have in mind is to improve at any ways. Assuming that you already have that man, gradually invest in the relationship. When you're still starting, work on establishing a better bond between the two of you. Spending a lot of time together is a great way. Build trust and character in your relationship. However, relationships tend to get dull at some time so gradually push the pace. Both of you could do something wherein both of you could focus your efforts and time such as starting a business. Having something to share makes the relationship last because of the very fact that you've got something in common (but it's not a guarantee). And lastly, strive not to entertain the thought of other men. By conditioning your mind, you'll condition your feelings and you'll realize soon enough that your ways have already changed. A good way to condition your mind is to constantly remind yourself that deep relationships are a lot better than fleeting ones which are primarily bounded by mere attraction.