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myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker 3 years ago

I saw these words on the back window of a car with signs of a beginner.
"BE PATIENT, YOU WERE LIKE ME!!!"
And to be honest, THIS WORDS MAKE ME THINK A LOT HOW MUCH PATIENT WE ARE WITH PEOPLE WHO TRY TO LEARN SOMETHING, WITH BEGINNERS.
Many times, I admit, no I do not have patience with beginners in any field, but raising two children, I learned that you must have patience with people who try to learn, are in began in a car driving in the profession, alive.
We forgot not often that we were novices in the past, that others have ignored us, maybe we have criticized, can we have charged.
You think that when you learn to drive a car or tried to learn a new foreign language, or when you first really tried to cook a cake, have been much better? Nobody is born learned, it is sure.happy


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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. joannaleed (6342)   3 years ago

I am proud to say that I do have a long patience. I really understand their situation since I've been there. Like in work, I do think I am just a newbie but there are newer than me especially these days and I am happy that I have impart knowledge in them in terms of skills. I do teach them well even though sometimes, it is really hard.

Step by step process is the great attitude if you are just a newbie. And step by step process to be able to make your patience longer.

I do have friends and colleagues who do have shorter patience and I don't really like that. I think it won't do good.


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

I try to be patient as the can, the patience I educated with my sons , when they were small, even with my job, but sometimes I lose my patience, and I'm so sorry for that. But i like this words for sure; all must to remember that they don t were born specialists.is a good life lesonhappy


myLot reputation of 94/100. tomcat23 (353)   ranked 2,358 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

I've been told I have the patience of a saint, and find it takes more patience dealing with the people who have short or no patience at all. Yes, I believe these people think they are "superior" and have to show their expertise whenever and as often as possible. Their impatience is also usually meant to be belittling and demeaning putting their victim on a level beneath them, not realizing that someday the person they had no patience with may someday shine much brighter than the impatient on will ever have the chance to. Patience is indeed a virtue. Everyday should be a learning experience even for the experienced. You can't teach something you haven't learned, so if you don't have the patiece to let someone learn, you haven't learned to teach.


myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22470)  3 years ago

I think we all need to remember that we were once beginners.. I try to remember how I felt when I was learning to become a nurse, and how us students were treated like dirt. I tried never really to treat students that way when I was a nurse.


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

This kind of situations are everywhere, people think thatsad they are more smarter if they are old in profession, but sometimes just to imagine how you was...make to be more patient

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. arun2009 (3831)   3 years ago

hi ice, this world is a stage, we are actors, we learn many things here from elders, youngers, highly qualified persons and not qualified at all, the process of learning is endless, am i right? ....lol....
Thank you so much. Cheers,happyHappy posting.thumbup
ARUN


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

Process of learning is endless, you are right; just one thing we can t learn , to respect and apreciate others work; this come from education, from heart, from good sensethumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22470)   3 years ago

That is so true. All of us had to learn everything we know. We were not born knowing how to drive a car. We were not born knowing how to function in our careers. Yet.. when I was a student nurse, many of the staff nurses were so annoyed with us that they had to have us tag along with them to learn new things. Eventually we were allowed to work by ourselves.. then we were taught something else.. like giving medications.. we had to be observed first.. we had so show that we had knowledge of the medicines. Then when we became nurses, we sometimes got impatient with the beginners.. it seems to be a right of passage.. but it shouldn't be so.


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

You know, we here say that to the poltic and football know all , all are teachers;
It is good to know each place we know the limits, to know and understand that we were beginners, in a word, to have common sense.Nd respect others.happy

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. eurekafemme (2835)   ranked 1,425 out of 4,279 in thinker   3 years ago

I used to work as a teacher for grades school pupils particularly levels 3 and 4. Sometimes, I do lose my patience but I often reminded myself that those kids were the reflections of myself when I was like them trying to grasp and learn new things.Thus, feeling a bit of sympathy towards their difficulties rather than impatience.

We sometimes forget that we all started from unknowing until one day one patient person taught us what we wanted to learn.:-)

Now, I realized we must be patient for someone who is trying to learn what we already knew. We must return the favor.:-)


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

Teachers can understand better what it means to want to learn, and someone to come tell you, I'm smarter, be careful you're a beginner.
Maybe people who think they know everything, would learn what mean patient too, what mean to be understanding; this is a human nobility.thumbup

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24270)   ranked 43 out of 4,279 in thinker   3 years ago

How much patience I have depends on how much the person wants to learn. Also how quickly they catch on. I don't have so much patience with people who just don't get it. My own kids excepted...


myLot reputation of 96/100. icesmile (2344)   ranked 80 out of 4,279 in thinker  3 years ago

of course that you are right, but people are different, not all have same intelligent level, maybe we must to be patient, and try just don t criticize.happy

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6. myLot reputation of 76/100. remembered (508)   3 years ago

Hi, i think you are right in there, when we are still learning we also have disturb some people and they have patience unto us and its our time to give way to new learners.

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. joygracia (540)   3 years ago

That is my biggest moto in life... I"ve lived for it most of my life. Maybe that"s the reason I'm still hopeful for a better life inspite of all the obstacle I've gone through.. I've had a broken heart just recently and my patience keeps me living until I will find the right one soon. We"ll hopefully.. I like this saying a lot..

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. valkerion (585)   ranked 2,699 out of 4,279 in thinker   3 years ago

Well there is a saying at Greece which says " Who ever is in haste he finally falls down".

I remember myself learning driving, and while I was in the teaching car a guy was shouting behind me because I wasn't going fast enough (for him!) That made me angry, but I realized that maybe if I also learned how to drive I was gonna be like him...

Sad part is that everyone is in haste now days...No one is relaxed, everything has to be done at dt time. Myself have a moto (borrowed from the LOST series) "Never tell me what I can not do." and I entered the following phrase "I just need my time"

I am let's say a fast-thinker, and I never had speed problems at learning something.

Ps. I recall now that I get VERY frustrated when someone types really slow..I grap the keyboard and type it myself lol!

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9. myLot reputation of 92/100. cr0ssf41r13 (718)   ranked 4,070 out of 4,279 in thinker   3 years ago

Nobody is perfect. That is why when we criticize people, we also must criticize ourselves. Even though we are in a certain field long enough to a point that we are called professionals, we must always criticize ourselves. Grow and grow. Do not stop. Of course, we must give the beginners premium. Don't go around demoralizing people.

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