What if you smell different scent from your partners shirts ?Will you?

@cloud31 (5808)
February 8, 2010 7:42pm CST
This incident usually happened with partners. A partners smells different brand of perfume from his/her partners shirts lead to a suspicious act.. If you were the one who had in this situation will you suspect your partner that she/he had another woman/man? Or she/he having an affair outside?Will you do some investigation towards him secretly or confront him directly? Share me your thoughts and views what would you think about this? Happy lotting..
5 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Feb 10
If he wants an affair, that is his problem. I will not fight to try and keep someone, if he doesn,t love me anymore. It really is not worth the effort and heartache. I will even help him pack. TATA.
@cloud31 (5808)
9 Feb 10
You made me laugh with your reaction LOL, you are very right indeed, its a way giving freedom to somebody who doesn't love you anymore.. Anyway thanks for posting ...God bless!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
9 Feb 10
My pleasure. TATA.
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hey cloud.. this is not actually that big of a deal to me.. first of all, theres gotta be trust between partners.. you cant be in a relationship if you dont trust your partner.. those you just play around are the ones to look out for.. but if it would happen to me, i think i should confront my girl first before i make my own assumptions.. you can tell if someone is lying to you so il ask her if she has a new cologne or something and then ask for her side of the story why she smells different sort of a guy's cologne.. and then if im convinced that she is lying, i will surely investigate and try to catch her off guard but i wont judge her just yet.. you can just give your partner the benefit of the doubt.. but dont fully trust her since you know that she lied to you..
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
hey cloud, its a pleasure to have helped you out.. well at least that was the best that i could have told you.. since it already happened to me once before when my ex was cheating on me.. but then past is past.. live life to the fullest and move forward.. have a good day cloud
@cloud31 (5808)
9 Feb 10
Hello there, I agree in your advise and opinion,relationship will works out well if you trust each other. Its a feeling of each individual what they think about this as for me i will just stay cool, and do an observation what's going on. Thank you for posting! Happy Lotting..
@Lucky12 (767)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I would be mad as you know what. If I had found that out OMG I would be gone with me and my son. I would find out if it was true first lol.
@cloud31 (5808)
9 Feb 10
hello lucky, you need to confront him first,it might just an accidents some people might attached to your husbands shirts while taking the transportation on his way home..hahaha. Don't disappear so suddenly find out the reality and make move ok..LOL Happy Lotting and thank you for posting!
@blummus (451)
• United States
9 Feb 10
I wouldn't worry about it if it only happens once. He may have been in the same room with someone wearing a lot of perfume without being close to the person. I've worked in offices where the smell from candles and other scented stuff was so strong it made my eyes water by mid afternoon. Worse, I'd come home smelling of it -- it would be in my clothes when I took them off at the end of the day.
@cloud31 (5808)
9 Feb 10
hello there, You are right it maybe a scent from somewhere or someone else stick his shirt. Thank you for posting..Happy Lotting and God bless!
@timasma (123)
• Poland
9 Feb 10
I would surely confront him about it. If for a moment I thought he was not telling me the truth, maybe I would start my own investigation, it's not nice, so I would rather find out from him. Plus I would feel really sneaky to follow him about or wait for him outside work.
@cloud31 (5808)
9 Feb 10
That is a nice idea confronting him is the best way to do,and you will know the reason and if its really doubted reason then starts your own way to find out the truth.. Happy Lotting..God bless!