Married and still jealous of your husband's/wife's ex gf/bf...

Hi, laurenban. Yes, I think that it is normal to be jealous at times. A woman wants to be the one and only for her man. And she does not want another woman to be better than she is. She wants to be his one and only. Just to know that my husband was once in love with another woman can make me very curious towards her. But as long as I know that he no longer has any hidden feelings for her, I am fine.

Its very natural. And its really good also if you feel jealous. Because jealousy is an emotion that shows yourself how much you really love the guy. I read this on youtube, and it shows you that you still have really strong affections for him/her. So keep being jealous.

i think it is ok get jealous SOMETIMES with your husband's ex..it is but normal as long as it will not ruin the relationship. when jealousy get to the extreme and is not already healthy for the relationship, that's the time it will be wrong. so for me, it is ok to get jealous for as long as it won't hurt the people you love.

Jealousy according to what 1Cor. 13:4-8 says, Love is not Jealous. Sometimes we do feel jealous as it says it is part of every human relationship. But if you keep on being jealous, what good does it get, nothing right. Getting jealous means that you don't trust your other half or your partner or your loved ones. Being jealous also means you are insecure. It is really a bad image, so I really suggest that if you truly love and trust a person, then don't be so jealous specially of petty things. Some couples do have an issue about ex's. But see to it that when you said EX, it means that your attention is more of your wife/husband/gf/bf. Not on your Ex because it should be your past and if it is your past, then let it be closed book. Don't ever compare your present with your past. Respect each other and get to know each other better than the so called EX. About your question if being jealous with an Ex is healthy? hmmm, i don't think so. As I have already said, let bygones be bygones. You will never see your future if you keep on holding to the past.

Hi, Lauren. Me and my partner are not yet married but we do have plans and i envy my partners exes. I envy them because they all look good and came to a prominent family. What kills me every time their names pops in my mind is that their moment that they are together, weeks,months, or years being together. How they spend that moment and how my partner feel that every second of that moment. I get jealous because all of them became part of my partner's life and became close to their family. In every special occasion they are present and etc. All my partner's exes became my friends but i can't avoid to be jealous even they are nice to me and already have their own family. I'm feeling that jealous right now. Gosh! I love my partner so much and how i wish we grew up the same city so that we become childhood sweethearts so that none of them spend "romantic moment" with my partner.

Jealousy spices up a relationship with feeling of being insecure and getting reassurance of one's commitment, but it should be at minimum so as not to cause paranoia and misconception...happy MyLotting..