wht to do when u'r falling in out of love in marriage?  

When a marriage is becoming meaningless, it's because both people are forgetting the essential thing of a mariage. Both conjugates are, above all things, FRIENDS, and if they don't act like friends, sharing experiences and having fun with each other, than there is no way they can continue their marriage. How come people can have friends for over 40 years but marriages, nowadays, last for less than 5 years? A wife/husband is a friend and that should never be forgotten.

Recently I've read an interesting article. This article stated that in a romantic relationship- there are 3 stages.
The first stage is named the "Honeymoon Stage"... it's when the couple can't get enough of eachother, miss eachother when they are not together, talk till they fall asleep, and basically- just MADLY in love.
The article said that once the stage is over, many couples tend to break up because it seems to one, or both of them that the love is 'over'...
According to the article, the love aint over. So if the relationship continues- the couple reach to the more 'stable' stage, which is not the same as the first one. (things are more relaxed, it's a LOT longer, and mature.)
I hope I gave you some info to think about.
Good luck!

Think when this happens it is time to re invent your relationship. Stress causes husband and wife to behave differently with each other, they treat each other not like lovers, but more like colleagues living in the same house, When this happens, it is time to take a break and review the relationship. Both partners have to accept that the relationship has gone to the dogs, and both have to make an effort to change it. A second honeymoon, or a holiday away from work, business, and family is a good idea. That is if both are still interested in making it work, if they are not interested in making it work, then i guess it's time to find happiness else where....

oh yes it does not happen,but very rare these days, i think happen when two people really are soul mates,they does not always happen in life but when it does endless is love very possible. it means a love not going to end. that u are going to your grave to no matter what you are u going to love always that person.

This is a thing which can happen at any time in a happily married relationship also. It has nothing to do that whether the marriage was an Arranged Marriage or Love marriage. Love can happen at any time, it does not require time to prosper but it surely requires time to decay. It does not gets lost overnight, but with passage of time, when couples starts having more fights than the times of toghetherness, compatiness and others with each other. At this time you do not find happiness in ech other company, when such thing occur one should try to be patient an give time to other, listen patiently and copperate even knowing the other one is wrong, one should try and bring swettness and this will work out surely, but it might take some time.

for your marriage not to get stale with time, don't take each other for guaranteed and never ever loose the romance from your life.you need to always make each other feel special ,by the way who does not like being pampered loved and made to feel special

marriege is bonding of two soul.but with change of time.some people is falling in love.and they do marriege against their parents.