Could you be friends with someone that was your spouses ex?  

Hi Hofferp. I have many good conversations with her. I really like this lady. Just cause they didn't make it not my problem. She is a nice lady.

Hi Jaiho. I do like this lady she has always been nice to me. I never thought about it I knew they had been lovers at one point and time. But I really like her she has never showed any bad side to me. I want to get to know her. She is really fun when I see her at work. I don't hold anything against her. My husband thinks I might not like her once I get to know her. But I have always felt like she is a good person. I don't let what happen before I met him bother me. I don't really give a hoot about what happened in the past.

Hi Tiara. She is fun to be around and I think that she will make a good friend. I have been at her job many many times and she has always been really nice to me. Her daughter is married to my mother in laws husbands son and we have had many hours of fun. I like talking to her and I think we will make good friends. I don't give a hoot what my husband and her had in a relationship. I like her and she don't make me feel uncomfortable when I am around her.

Yeah who gives a hoot about what he had?
Good for you man!

Hi Tiara. That is how I feel about it as long as I have known this lady she has never made me feel out of place cause I am his wife. He had a thing and that is his past not mine. I don't care about what happened in the past. I love him and I really like this lady. After all I am the one wearing his wedding ring. And she don't remind me of their past never.

Now that is a very loving attitude free man and if more people thought like that, the world would be a better place. Good for you my friend!

Hi Tiara. I don't think about anyones past that is before me. I feel it is a good thing to let lying dogs lie. This is a new stage of life so it is better to move forward and not backwards. Hope you have a great day. Thank you.

Good that you don't Free.
I am going to have a marvellous day thank you and you do the same my friend!

Hi Tiara sorry about taking so long to respond. But with the beautiful 60 degree weather we haven't been inside but a few moments the last couple of days. Thanks my friend hope you have a great day too.

Hi Tho roughrob. She don't even mention him and her she only talks to me about me. She never ask about him although she has seen him many times. She isn't the type of lady that would mention anything about the past. I don't know if we will be best friends but she is the nicest ladies I have met in this state. She treats me with the utmost respect everytime I see her. She even gave me her home phone number.

Hi Emediloy. I have met a couple of his exes and one I wouldn't give the time of day too. But this one is a nice lady she has always been nice to me and he wonders if I would get jealous of her. I don't think of her as his ex I think of her as a nice lady. I have always felt comfortable around her and want to know her better. She never talks about him she only talks about herself an me as if we had always been friends. I like the way she makes me feel when I am around her.

Hi Basqui. When I have seen her and my husband around each other it don't look like anything but just friends. I don't think of this lady as competition. I have had some good conversations with her and she is funny. She always makes me laugh about the stupidest things. I am not insecure about my relationship with my husband I know he loves me. He might have had her as a girlfriend but I am the one he married.

my friend, you're lucky coz you're the wife now and not the ex. what's important in a relationship is faith. good luck to your married life!

Thanks Basqui. My feelings excatly.

Hi Cloudwatcher. That is a good answer. I don't see any problems being friends with his exes. I think she is a nice lady and just cause it didn't work out for them don't mean she isn't a nice person. Everyone is different some in many ways some in small ways. I don't know and don't care why they didn't get along, I know that I am secure enough in my marriage that it won't bother me to be around his ex girlfriend. After all I am the one wearing his wedding ring.

Hi Lelin. I really like your response. My husband is the one that thinks that I will get jealous. I can't understand why though I am the one he married not her. And she is a nice lady. I have known her about as long as I have been with my husband. I have never seen any signs that she wants him back. My husband was with this real jealous woman before he met me and he don't know what to think about me not being jealous. It isn't as if she is beautiful or sexy she is down to earth like me and we have had some great conversations. None about my husband just about everyday life. I like the way she thinks.

Thank you my friend free_man for the best response mark. Have a great week!

Hi Homeshoppers. I don't believe in being jealous of something that happened before I met my husband. I don't care about what he did in his past that was before me. And this lady don't seem to be trying anything except being friends. I have had many conversations with this lady and it has never been about my husband. I am not the jealous type of person. I found that jealousy can run a person away from you. My husband never asked her to marry him but he did ask me and married me so what is there to be afraid of? After all we do share the same last name. I am the one wearing his wedding rings. We share our past mistakes and I just can't see not being a friend to someone I trust.

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LOL... You and your husband are very much honest with each other. I can already imagine my reaction if my future husband will open those stuffs to me. My God! ^_^ Both of you are lucky enough that you have that kind of relationship because for some women they may take it as an insult, right? I hope that you'll continue your precious relationship with your husband... ^_^

Hi eLsMarie. We have a very open relationship. We became friends before we got married. We used to hang out and work together and told each other everything. We have many hours of chating to each other and it don't matter what the subject is we have respect for each other. There isn't anything that I have to hide from him and he has nothing to hide from me. He is a very loving and kind person. I thank God for giving me this man. I was in a real bad situation when I met this man and so was he. And the day I met him I asked God if I had ever done anything right to please give me this man. 3 months later he asked me to marry him. So I believe that God sent me this man and sent me to this man. I believe that this is a marriage made from God.I believe what God puts together will last for ever. Thank you.

Oh... That's so sweet... You both are so lucky to finally end up in each others arms... I love to talk to you and share your love story to me... ^_^ I wish that I will have the same experience as yours... :D You both are meant to be together forever because I can sense that you have a very good heart (teary eyed)... ^_^

Hi eLsMarie. Thanks. This is one of the best things that God ever gave me. He is my buddy. It is a love story I didn't ever figure to have in my life time. But God sent me this man and I will cherish this gift I have been given as long as I live. Thanks again. Have a great day.

You are so much welcome... :D Have a great day also... ^_^ It's always my pleasure to help...

Hi eLsMarie. Sorry it has taken me so long to resopnd but just been having such beautiful days this last couple of days haven't been on the computer. Thanks again.

No worries... ^_^ Whenever I\m too busy with other stuffs, I tend to stop from using the computer... Wish you luck... :) Have a happy mylotting... Good luck on your love life... :)

Hi eLsMarie. We have a pretty good life. I have never been this happy in all my life. My husband tells me the same thing.Thanks! I hope you have a wonderful day!