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myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life 2 years ago

As a human I believe that we all have failures and regrets in life.
Failed to success,failed to love,failed the exams and etc.
Me myself failed, I failed to give my parents more better life, before when I was single I dreamed and I promised a better life for my parents,but it didn't happen cos I was tempted by love and make mistakes, And now I regret. My husband say to never regret something that once made you smilehappy.But deep inside me I know I made the biggest mistake in my life. Sometimes the littlest thing in life changes something forever and there will be times when I wish I can go back to how things used to be but I just can't because things have changed so much.
Can you leave it all behind? cause you can't go back?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. Andyvil (625)   ranked 1,238 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I have a few failures in life but I can't say that I regretted those failures in my life. Mistakes are a part of my life and regretting them will only result in me dwelling on those mistakes for a very long time. Although I've made some mistakes in life I still think those mistakes I made were for the best. It made me who I am right now and I've learned from those mistakes that I made in the past. So to me I don't dwell to much on those mistakes. I leave them behind and learn from them.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I have heard that for so many people, How I wish that i feel like you guys...leave them behind and learn from them., right now i feel that am being stuck up with my mistakes. I wish I could let this go.

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2. myLot reputation of 41/100. namiya (179)   ranked 11,031 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Experiencing failure in life is as normal as growing old. We cannot control events and everything that surrounds us so no matter how we try to make our life take the course we want it to, it sometimes takes a sudden unexpected turn. Sometimes what is even consider as failure at the moment turns out to be a "blessing in disguise" which one will only realize latter. Lets just learn the lessons these failures has taught us to make us stronger and wiser persons next time.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

hi namiya
It might be a blessing in disguise cos I have my son now, with out him im nothing,I believe that if there's no pain, there would be no suffering, without suffering we would never learn from our mistakes.To make it right, pain and suffering is the key to all windows, with out it, there is no way of life. How I wish I could forget and just learn from my mistakes.thanks for sharing your thoughts. have a wonderful dayhappy


myLot reputation of 41/100. namiya (179)   ranked 11,031 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

yes myramae your son is the best reason not to regret too much. Besides, there are still plenty of means to help your parents despite being married. Just let them feel your love even in simple ways that you can. Enjoy being a mother.

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3. myLot reputation of 87/100. rainbowbunnyz (434)   ranked 10,897 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Yes, I have, and think everyone in this world has. There are many things that I have failed to do, keeping my promise or maybe not being completely honest. There are things that I regret doing, but I know that if I had I choice, I would still choose not to change it. I will move on from my past mistakes and try to learn from them in order to become a better person, or become the person, that I want to be.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

That is exactly I want to do.. to move on and be a better person happy

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4. myLot reputation of 94/100. common_man (1053)   ranked 4,129 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Hi myramae,

Who has not seen failure in life? Every one of us has seen some failure in some area. But all of us learn from our failure and with lessons learned from failure, we live life in better way.

I agree with you, that when we fail to take care of our loved ones, our Parents, our childrens, etc, as we wanted to take care, the feeling of guilt always remain with us.

But we must come out of that and try to plan better future for them.

Keep Smiling.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

You're perfectly right common_man
plan a better future for them, anyway its not too latehappy
thanks, somehow You give me the idea how to start againthumbup

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5. myLot reputation of 94/100. common_man (1053)   ranked 4,129 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Hi myramae,

Who has not seen failure in life? Every one of us has seen some failure in some area. But all of us learn from our failure and with lessons learned from failure, we live life in better way.

I agree with you, that when we fail to take care of our loved ones, our Parents, our childrens, etc, as we wanted to take care, the feeling of guilt always remain with us.

But we must come out of that and try to plan better future for them.

Keep Smiling.

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6. myLot reputation of 94/100. sender621 (12069)   ranked 690 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I think we all have failures and regrets in our lives. We wouldn;t be human if we didn't Fsiling is sometimes the first step in succeeding. Regrets are choices we didn't make or ones that we should. If we all take the time, we can think of ways that we have failed or regretted a decision. These are things that make us the people we are today.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

yes, we human tend to commit mistakes, But How I wish that I could really learn from it not regret from it...I really want to move forward and just forget what I did, but here inside me there's always the guilt, the guilt of not fulfilling my dreams for them.. and this regret is pulling me down. Good thing is I have a very supportive and understanding parents and I am very thankful.
thanks sender621
happy lotting

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7. myLot reputation of 76/100. machivado (476)   ranked 9,101 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I guess the only thing you can do in this world is to move forward. I really believe the philosophy: "Scare not even if your foot steps are slower but be scared if you don't walk at all."
I guess not everyone can get over their regret, but I believe that everyone must keep going even with regrets.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

you're right machivado..move forwardhappy
thanks for responding

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. Mike4me (512)   ranked 5,347 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Yes everybody has our won failures and regrets in life. I, myself have some as well. I failed a lot of times in the past but I always make sure that I learned from them.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

happy

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9. myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4685)   ranked 1,388 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

yes your right, i also wish that i can go back to change some part of my life but of course i cnt. i guess every one of us have failures and regrets in life but what matter is we learned a lot from them. i know i failed my parents a lot when i got pregnant without the father of the child knowing they trusted me that much. i failed their trust towards me. i also have regrets of giving my self to someone whose not deserving to have it and so im the only one whose suffering right now. but then i will try to fix things out and wish this time i can do better than better things in my life or perhaps the best.


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Like you I also got pregnant, and because of that I had sacrificed my work abroad cos I need to go back home to give birth to my baby, Good thing is the father of my baby is very supportive,responsible and he truly loves me..we got married 2 days after I gave birthhappy
But the opportunity to work, to help with my parents was gonesad

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10. hansraj89 (49)   2 years ago

hi,
Everyone makes mistakes in life and it is necessary also because we learn from mistakes.......
if we not make mistake we cant learn more...but we should be careful and try to make less mistakes and learn from the mistakes made by our seniors.....


myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 5,614 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

yes, if we are more careful, we can avoid mistakes
thanks for your thoughtshappy

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