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myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines 2 years ago

Had been away from home for almost 6 yrs now but now & then i still feel the sting of discomfort not being able to express myself as exquitely as i can in English. I am here in Germany and in the city where i live, most people do not speak nur understand English words except for a few young ones and students who have taken an English language in school. Most times i find myself out of words for their language and it is really frustrating. I am not used to not being able to voice out. But now like i am imprisoned in a language barrier.

Even with a number of Certificates i made in school (yes!i studied the language here), i still find my knowledge not enough. And i still can not speak with their tone - you know - its hard to sound like them. lol

Anybody have undergone or is undergoing now this kind of dilemma? How did you cope up? How did you feel too? how did you finally get rid of the discomfort?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 84/100. pals101 (568)   ranked 171 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

That's is really hard for you, but don't worry..With practice and constant listening I know you can speak their dialect well with the correct tone.. I know you can do it.. Try also to find fellow-countrymen of yours, maybe they can help you with the language and how to learn them fast..happy
Good for you, you are in a progressive and nice country..just enjoy it and always have dedication in your work..thumbup


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

I have & is still using the net to listen how they talk. Tried to imitate the tone but i simply sound funny. lol About our fellow countrymen? oh..most speak incorrectly too. And when they are with me, they'd prefer to speak Tagalog. Sooo..no way to learn there.
But i'll take your advice. Thnx!


myLot reputation of 84/100. pals101 (568)   ranked 171 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

Guess its really hard to learn there language..happy..Say my regards to all the Filipinos in Germany,,hope i can go there someday...lol


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

for beginners and already in age ( not young )it is hard. The language has many words with the sound of kh ..you know that sound when one tries to spit out the slime from the throat? LOL


myLot reputation of 84/100. pals101 (568)   ranked 171 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

Hehehe... hmmm... sounds really hard indeed...w00t

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. danitykane (2523)   ranked 674 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

oh really? I know in time you will perfect that language. Just don't stop believing in yourself.thumbup I think you are really smart. For you to learn another language and for you to travel miles away from our country is really something.happy I never been in that kind of situation but if I will be, I will try my hardest to learn the language even more. Just set some goals, read and watch movies on the said language and practice everyday. happy I know it is easier said than done, but you are Pinoy you can definitely do it.

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myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

Thank you! I read alot and talk the language everyday but guess i need more time. Watching movies is something i do not like so much. Besides the next movie hse is an hr's drive from the city i live. TV yeah ..programs for kids. They talk slow & clear.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. ybong007 (4482)   ranked 2 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

Practice makes perfect.


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

Üben macht den Meister :-) You are correct.

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4. myLot reputation of 75/100. bea_29 (216)   ranked 707 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

hi tigerlily!! we are in the same dilemma. am also working overseas wherein english is not even considered as a second language not unlike in the Phllippines that most can speak fluent and some broken english. its really frustrating if i cannot express myself and when i cant understand what they are saying. so difficult for me since am in a hospital wherein communication is a very important factor in dealing with patients.


myLot reputation of 75/100. bea_29 (216)   ranked 707 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

as for coping i really dont know if i did cope. am still learning. here they have 3 sets of alphabets, 1 alphabet consists of 48 characters, other 1 is 49 and the other 1 is 50, 000, but in those 50 thousand characters you need to know 2 thousand characters to be able to read, however in specialize field like in medicine we have to know 10 thousand characters. 1 character sometimes have different meanings, depending on the next character.. whewwww. studying while working is a BIG S for me as in STRESS!!!


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

it is really frustrating, right?

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5. myLot reputation of 39/100. bnx2212 (558)   ranked 1,673 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

I know what you feel since I felt that also before when I visited Qatar, But what's good with the place is that, there are so many Filipinos and the natives there already knew how to speak our dialect, and most of them are struggling to speak in english to be understood.


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

I had once a stop-over in Qatar. Flew with Qatar Airways via Singapore to Cebu.


ana_k31 (52)   ranked 1,702 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

WOW,. i also wan tot go to singapore,.

good luck tiger lily,. it tkaes a lot of courage and strength to leave your homelanda and yeah,. you sure do have that for you now live in a place where the language most people speak is not that undersatandable. Don't worry,. am sure on due time you would be able to speak german as if it is your tongue,. as they say practice makes perfect what more, as you said, its the only language everyone there speaks,.

best of luck

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. stine1 (6767)   2 years ago

Hi,

I am German and I live in Germany. Don't be sad - I guess you will go back home after your studies?
I have moved from Bavaria to Cologne just after school without my parents. That was also very confusing and frustrating.

Don't give up! thumbup


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

am not going home ... i got married here and is in the process for a German Pass. I went to school to learn the language hoping to master it.


myLot reputation of 87/100. stine1 (6767)  2 years ago

Oh, congratulations then happy
So where in Germany do you live? I live near Cologne now.


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

auch hier! im NRW. LOL

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7. myLot reputation of 86/100. myramae19 (548)   ranked 2,113 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

Hi tiger
I know exactly how it feels, I went to korea last 4 years ago.. at first I really find it hard to understand and to make them understand what im trying to say, they can't speak english.. what i did is I bought dictionary and later after 2 months the management enrolled us in korean language school..and after 5 months of studying their language, we could talk " hangul " really wellhappy
I was happy with that experiencehappy
try to learn a little by little so that You won't find it difficult talking with them.
God bless and Ingatzhappy


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

Thanks! will try.

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8. yra1026 (26)   ranked 3,466 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

i know how does it feel dude! its not really that easy, especially if you're talking to someone who couldn't speak with your native tongue. sometimes its annoying! specially if they don't get you and you couldn't discuss it thoroughly with them coz you were running out of words to use and they mean different from yours. hahay soooo difficult to restrain things like this! all i can say is just be positive and be polite so that if ever they don't get what you mean atleast they will stay calm and they will hold their tone towards you... this is how i handled things here dude... :)


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

yeah, you have a good suggestion. Though it gets in my nerve not to find the correct words when it is so easy in English, i will stay positive & be polite. thnx

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9. myLot reputation of 100/100. xannebull (1428)   ranked 243 out of 3,627 in philippines   2 years ago

I have never been out of my country here in the philippines and haven't been experiencing in living in a foreign country but i can relate with how you feel right now. It's very hard to live far from home,you have to adjust in everything, not only in language but to their traditions and attitudes, i just hope that you could cope up and adjust faster so your life will still be worth living there.


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

yes! you are right! Its not jsut the language that bothers. I am also irked with the food! German foods does not taste in my tongue. There is also no asian store near the city where i live - its really choking. I wish to love their foods ... how. But life here is really a lot lot better than my life in the Phils. And i love Winter. Now we are approaching spring & the birds are starting to chirp & sing..lovely!

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10. myLot reputation of 100/100. astonysh (4492)   2 years ago

I am a British national living in Germany (currently in Frankfurt), and I have mastered the language.

My wife (a university graduate, so a very bright lady) comes from Thailandhappy, has been here six years, and is still struggling to make any sense of the language, but she keeps trying. That said the Thai diaspora here is large, so she spends more time talking Thai than anything else. At work she manages with a mix of German and English, and they all like herthumbup.

Really the key to the language is just to keep practising. Read as much as you can, and listen, listen, listen. My friends have got used to my accent (I will never sound German - it comes across as Deutsch with a Northern English accent). Don't be embarrassedblush, and just keep smiling!


myLot reputation of 90/100. tigerlily1972 (274)   ranked 1,922 out of 3,627 in philippines  2 years ago

Yes, i have a number of Thailanderin friends and they really have a hard time learning the language because their alphabet is different as our abc. But Thailand Nationals are very friendly & warm friends. I like them. I had been to Phuket last April. Your wife has a beautiful country. You should be proud of her.

Danke für Dein Kommentar.

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