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I have witnessed an Office Illicit!!!!!  email this discussion to a friend?

enix119 (82)   ranked 4,659 out of 32,962 in life 2 years ago

Do you know Office Illicit? It means abnormal relationship between office man and office lady. Maybe it is a fresh expression, but I think most of us have ever met such an occasion. It means dishonesty to your wife or your husband. I have just witnessed that one of my colleague as well as my good male friend kissed a female colleague and I know that this man has married. If I were his wife, I will feel desperate and never give him a seconde chance. Have you met Office Illicit and what do you think of it?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 87/100. jimeny (322)   2 years ago

I don't know if it's an "Office Illcit", but I think I went through something similar.
I am working in a school as a secretary assistant, so both the secretary and the principal have my cellphone number.
One day, one of the teachers asked me for my phone number. I did not think there was something wrong with it because I thought it will be used only for work related issues... boy I was wrong. That teacher started texting me everyday, and he was calling me every afternoon (AFTER work) to ask what I'm doing and if he can join me. (and he's married+kids)
I consulted with some friends and they told me to let him know this is improper and to tell him to stop, so I texted him and said that I rather separate my 'work life' from my 'personal life' and that I want him to stop texting/calling me. He didn't text/called me ever since- so it's all good now.
This was an expiriance that I never want to have again.


enix119 (82)   ranked 4,659 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

I think you have dealt with such stuff sensiblely and directly. What's worrying is that when some guy meet these office Illicit, although they know it's not smart, they can help to do that and even said it's just a way of jumping out from the office pressures. Anyway, I appreciate your ways to do it=)

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4686)   ranked 1,389 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

i had that before, my supervisor and my office mate, my supervisor have problem with her husband as according to her, her husband is very lazy and alcoholic and they always argue everyday and so its all started when this new employee get in and treat us for lunch on his first salary and we found out that they also went out to the bar together with my other office mate that night. and since then we already saw different from their action. some says the guy always treat her and they both go home at the same time. then one time we heard that our supervisor want to annul her marriage with his husband as she wanted to find someone good for her. i already left the company so i dont know what happened to their story now.


enix119 (82)   ranked 4,659 out of 32,962 in life  2 years ago

I guess the superviser annul her marriage because of some guy. I also agree some of these are inevitable beacause of the diffrence of thought, life style, sense and so on even though they are couple. But what we should always make clear is to seperate the work and life, no blending.

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3. myLot reputation of 64/100. ladychai (117)   ranked 26,521 out of 32,962 in life   2 years ago

I do not know if this is true but for most westernized companies here in the Philippines, most specifically call centers, illicit affairs in the office has become a household name.

Also, I guess it is because of the current men to women ratio. There are more women in the world now than men.

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