how would you react if you find a woman flirting with your man on facebook?  

well i am starting to get pissed alright.and how would you show those women how mad you are, if you're not sharing FB contacts/mutual friends? let me know. i've been wrecking my brain on how to get my rage in a more productive way, but it seems to be getting the good out of me, since i found out.i trust my man, but i dont trust those flirting women.

wait wait wait, is your man flirting back? you said you trust your man so I think there's no problem. And what do you mean you don't trust those flirting women? Do you ever think they can get your man? If you think like that, it might mean you're insecure. Just warn those women and say "hey! this man is mine, okay? so back off b******!!" something like that. and I think that's enough. Be confident that your man is just yours and feel how beautiful you are sister! =D

insecure..i dont think so..don't have any reason to be cuz i am much prettier than all of them. like a lioness i guard my domain. yeah, that's a good idea to tell all them flirting women.."go away..he's mine" but of course it's easier to let go if he's flirting back at them and it's not my loss.

i've been toying with the nicest way to say it..ha! women can sometimes blurt things, and i want to be very cautious of my actions and words. honestly it was an accident that i happen to browse his fb (account settings on computer was set to *remember when logging in..or something)-- would that make me a nosy person? i dont think so. maybe it was heavens' way of showing me to deal with it, as early as now. draw a line between what is and is not acceptable on social network acquaintances. i trust my man.i am trying to keep him away from temptations, cuz you never know how other women would lure him into "naughty" things offline. how he responded, i dont have any idea. and i dont want to know. it's enough for me to find some flirting women on his FB list/ notifications /inbox. healthy or not, this could be our first confrontation.and i'm sure i will need 1000000x patience handling this.

exactly..you know it would be friends from their profile and messages.and flirting if it goes beyond. if i talk to him and tell him about it, im sure he will be upset for me nosing around his FB. but not as upset as i am when i found out. i guess talking about this will make us realize what needs to be straightened out if we want this to work for us. and it will be good for me too cuz i feel cheated. what i wanted to find out is if he ever did responded. this is one of the risk i need to accept with social network acquaintance, i hope not meetups cuz definitely that's a different story. i heard stories of how old flames get the spark back after years, and men being flirted on sometimes can't help to be naughty.

now that you asked, i think i need to check his status. and maybe it would be best to add him as FB contact now. no sense giving each other space and privacy on fb. we didnt share contacts, we 're not even friends. crazy now that this has come up.

she does look cheap seeing from her profile & photos, that's why i reacted differently. what i did was to block the girl and changed his fb settings. if he finds out or tries to unblock the girl, then i would know he is keeping online contact and may be liking the flirting he gets. i tried searching the girl to post a message but cant find her. checking his wall now, notifications and messages dont get posted since i blocked the girl. haven't got the chance to talk about it though.