Emotional Atayachaar (Torture) - Would you spy on your Partner?

Cheating - Do you really cheat on your Partner
@avani26 (1518)
India
March 12, 2010 2:52am CST
The subject does sound vague isn't it. Actually this is a TV programme on UTV Bindass which spies on your partner after taking the approval from you to check if your partner is cheating on you and this is on National Television. In this program there are people who are in serious relationships or married or in a live in relationship and want to test if their partner is Loyal to them so they approach this TV program and they setup the show in which they spy on the partner and make them meet up with their setup Anchors who approach the "Suspect" (in this case the person who is being spied on) on behalf of the Victim (the person who has given the permission to spy on their partner). There are many people who do cheat on their partners when they get a chance and this is shown live and the reactions of the victims. I would like to know would you cheat on your partner just for some fun even though you are actually in love with your partner? If you are loyal and do not cheat even when it is setup and you come to know about it would you ever trust your Partner? Would you feel that it is the Partner's love for you that made them spy on you? Or would you take it as a practical joke? Hoping to get the answers and I would give my views after your comments.
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5 responses
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
14 Mar 10
the reality program that you have said is only good to watch. but i dont think that i can do it to my partner because if i do it, it only means that i never trust my partner. on your question i will never cheat on my partner because i love him. i dont see any reasons to ride on that show just to make the rate to be in high and to be watch.
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@avani26 (1518)
• India
14 Mar 10
I truly believe that and yes these reality shows are only good to watch.
@avani26 (1518)
• India
9 Sep 10
Welcome to mylot and thanks for responding and the primary lesson is that never take your per for granted or treat like fools.
• India
15 Aug 10
yes exactly this reality programme is very fantastic.......emotional atyachaar makes sure that how trust on my patner.....nd that is very important for our life.....
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@akn1961 (1034)
• India
20 Aug 10
if these type of sting operation is to be done , majority of people will be in problem ,as every body will be without cloth.
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@avani26 (1518)
• India
9 Sep 10
Not everyone just people who have masks on their faces
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
no. i dont think spying on him would do me or him any good. he can have his privacy for all i care and i am quite sure that he does value my privacy as well, so let us give each other the respect we need. :D i would not bring my self to a situation where i just might regret it.
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@avani26 (1518)
• India
9 Sep 10
I fully agree
• Germany
12 Mar 10
this TV program is only for those who likes to make fun of their marriage /relationship. I do not go for it. For me, my marriage is a sacred one. I wil of no means, subject it to any FUN. I will not even attempt to think of this tv program. It is simply non-sense. Playing or pretending or testing if your partner is loyal is the worst one can do to destroy the fundamental of each other's trust.
@avani26 (1518)
• India
12 Mar 10
Rightly pointed out. Marriage is trust.
• China
22 Mar 11
I have so many episode of this program. But no i will not spy to my partner. I do believe my partner and respect him. Moreover in emotional Atayachaar the cheater get the opportunity to do cheat what usually my partner don't get in his life. So he will not cheat with me. So i would not spy my partner. Have a good time!