Have you ever been back stabbed by someone close to you
@showmesumoney (206)
United States
November 15, 2006 9:58pm CST
I have so many times, and not only from my friends but mostly by one of my older sisters. It all started when we were young like most siblings start good, then she began hooking me up with this and that guy, mind you I was barely 14, she'd just give out my address and phone number most of time. Now one time I did ask her to do it for me after she'd got me into dating, but it seemed to me that she really didn't care that these guys could easily been a murderer, rapist, child predator or molestor, or even a AIDS carrier. To her it was for fun, anyway over the years she became more into my business and destroying any relationships that I might have wanted to work. It's just so much drama from her it's to long and heartaching to talk to much about, til this day it still continues eventhough she's married she still keep her nose in my personal life, being that she live right in front of me, what can one do. You say move but the way rent is who can really afford that, I mean I have my own land where I'm living now so who knows maybe she'll move.
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@Weasel_Sponge (1069)
• Canada
16 Nov 06
It sounds harsh, but a long time ago, I learned that people like this, whether family or not, are just toxic and you have to wish them the best, but send them on their way. I have dealt with many people like this in my life, and I just had to cut them out of my life. I don't have the time, energy, or desire to feed their neurotic behaviours, and although many of them spread rumours and lies about me after I stopped indulging them, I really didn't (and don't) care. Anyone who knows me or is a rational, decent human being wouldn't believe or listen to garbage spewed about me, and anyone who does, I don't want to waste my time with anyway. Some people are not happy unless they are surrounded by drama or actively destroying someone elses life, and it's just plain pathetic. Anyone who purposely behaves this way has something wrong with them and as sad as it is and as much as you may want to help them change, it's not your job, your duty, your responsiblity or even in your best interest to waste your time with them. What would you do with a malignant tumour-keep being nice to it, letting it drain you of your energy and resources, and hope it changes? No, you'd cut it out. I don't think I need to tell you who the tumour is in this relationship.
@dixielol (1579)
• United States
16 Nov 06
Oh, I fell your pain! My sis is the same way. If she sees someone happy, if it is me, her mom, her boyfriend, or her huspand (yeah, she has both. Hubby's in jail & dont know she lives w/her boyfriend) if she thinks they may be happy, she does everything in her power to ruin it. It is sad that there are people like that but there is. I think it has alot to do with jealosy. She was psycho jealous of her hubby and her own mom. No reason why, but she was. Now she is jealouse of me and her boyfriend who I cant even stand. The only thing you can do is ignore her. I wouldn't move if I was you. Espically if you own your own land and all. But ignore her & adventially you will find a guy that will stick with you no matter what crap she pulls! Just hang in there and keep your chin up or you might miss your prince charming when he comes by! LOL.
