Is it just me or Dr phil tells people things that are so Obvious????  

I mean people leave their homes travel long distances and humiliate themselves on t.v just to hear a guy tell them to STOP! doing what your doing? I mean it if you figured you had a problem that cause you to reflect and say you "I need help" wouldn't you seek someone outside of the mainstream and just get fixed?? I hear people just getting yelled at and they could have gotten someone on the street to do that for them (v.i.p me) lol, but honestly what is going on with us Americans today we are grown adults that need other adults to walk us through life if the parents need help what will our future generations look like??? what do you think???