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myLot reputation of 86/100. venkatachary (663)   ranked 3,943 out of 32,957 in life 2 years ago

In India , the present trend is to select the Partners as equal as to their earnings, in status and in Position.When the women ask for equal freedom , they are not accepting a male partners in-case if he is not equal to her status.When there is a growing unemployment and the competition are heavy, the male may not find suitable job for his qualification.In such a situation, the partners should accept the reality and should select the partners not by the status but by the character of the partners.MyLotters can air their views.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 91/100. caliya (861)   ranked 3,165 out of 32,957 in life   2 years ago

wavelength is very important in choosing a partner. we may not agree on everything but our outlook in life should be in the same direction. having a decent job is also very important.


myLot reputation of 86/100. venkatachary (663)   ranked 3,943 out of 32,957 in life  2 years ago

Decent job is important, but they seek the male partner should earn more than them.Some cases money power plays a vital role.If every male wants , employed girl and vice versa as their life partners, then the unfortunate male and female who are not employed will not get their partners in life.
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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. vajradev (404)   2 years ago

I think you are talking about arrange marriage. Even in case of love marriage it is true. In case of love marriage, most of the time a person try to select their partners according to their looks. Then comes the financial status, family condition etc. But in the case of arrange marriage both of the person goes for the financial status mostly, then family, culture etc. And in my experience in case of arrange marriage people doesn't try to go for very good looks. They feel contented in "not bad" condition of their spouse, it is may be because they are getting all the other aspects very well.

To be very frank not in love marriage or arrange marriage, they can be able to check a persons character very closely. One is get blinded by love and the second one is contented by the fulfilled demand.

I am agree to you, they should have choose a person by their characters as well. But sadly in reality, that doesn't happens.


myLot reputation of 86/100. venkatachary (663)   ranked 3,943 out of 32,957 in life  2 years ago

Thanks for the response. You are correct.Most cases, employed boy or girl select only the employed girl or boy. The employed girl do not select an unemployed boy and vice versa.In this situations, many may not get their life partners in the coming days.Happy myLotting.

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