Shade of lipstick.... or be natural at all  

Whenever I go out of home I make sure that am wearing my burgundy shade of lipstick. Seems like I look barren without my lipstick. I do know too that some women even wear lipstick even their just at home.
What shades of lipstick do you like, do you wear it even at home or just be natural/without lipstick at all even out?
For the guys would you rather have your partner/gf/wife wear a lipstick so they look attractive at you or let her just be natural?