love before marriage  

She did the right thing, she shouldn't have to put up with cheating and his heart isn't in the marriage, and it wasn't in it before they got married! It's a good thing she found out sooner rather then later, divorces can be messy as it is and it's harder when you have children.

I totally understand how she feels. The marriaged turned out to be disrespectful for her. But was it a forced marriage for the guy? The description you gave here seems like they did not even get a chance to get to know each other before marriage. They simply jumped into it which was a bad move. I cannot completely say that your friend is doing the correct thing. She is partially responsible for getting into this. Marriage should not be taken as some form of joke. It is a serious thing. I don't think she saw it that way before getting married.

Your friend must jump out as quickly as possible out of this unhappy situation as quickly she had jumped into it. There is no point in continuing with a cheating husband. It would spell misery for her for the rest of her life. It is better to suffer heartache once rather than to suffer for the whole life.

For me, the main reason for marriage is love. So love is important before marriage. There is no reason to live with a person who loves other person and not you. I can say that the decision of your friend is right.

having a divorce is not that easy i know., because there are some people who is affected regarding this situation., her family, and her children., she must also considered the effect to their children if she has a child., because its not easy to a child to have a separated parents.,

love before marriage showing an trustful relationship.It shows that you will be breaking relationship soon.if will planning to get married make sure knowing your partner before get married. Most of us feel that they what each other but after get marriage and having a trials and knowing each other attitude and plan to divorce. Why do we start knowing our partner before planning get married if we want a long lasting relationship? Marriage is easy to plan But becomes harder when your their!.

One way she is right but there was little hope I think.She should have waited for husband and have his own time to get over the old lover.Her husband has soft-corner for previous love doesn't mean he is not going to overcome it ever.
I think her reaction was knee jerk and she should have shown some patience.

love bfore marriage is a fruit that is ripening. It needs to be nurtured properly so that it ripens in the best manner possible. All the same, there are chances of its being exposed to a few dangers too but then chances are that these thing help it to become a better fruit.
Love before marriage has some unique features. check this out:
Before marriage even though you're in a relationship you are still single. You to need to fend to yourself emotionally and physically. Your partner may be around you to comfort and spend time but you perceive the the world as single. Although you slowly begin to get into a mindset of a married person., you are still not there completely.
Before marriage, a person is his/her own self. He/she does not change the way of living because the institution of marriage has no binding on the individual. In other words the person is a free bird, free to act according to to his/her will and to do what he/she feels in the best of her/his interest.
Decision making is entirely a person's job although you might be dating seriously. This means that even the smallest decisions would be taken by you and you would holkd the reins completely of what is good and bad for you.
Before marriage you have the distinction of pampering yourself by doing things that you like the most. You do care for your partner with whom you are into a relationship but the element of sharing doesn't exist.

Well as long as the husband was not involved in a relationship with his ex during the relationship with his current wife, the application was divorce could be a hasty decision. I can't comment on whether it was the right or wrong thing to do because I don't know too much about the details and as to why such a situation arose.