Why its impossible to be happy all the time?  

Hi,care
Well,apparently,I think all the psychiatrists will start strike if U are the Savior
Happy mylotting

life is not always a bed of roses and as long as people want or need something then we cant promise happiness always specially with those people around us. no matter how hard we try to make happy but if someone with us will be the one to ruin that happiness then it will. since we cant control them.

Happiness is associated with our internal personality and we tend to blame the outer or external factors.Infact small things like pursuing a hobby can make one feel happy.It is our expectations that make us unhappy.But yaa again if there are no expectations we aint humans rather i would say we arent living.It is a matter of perspective.Some people with a great number of things going against them are happy."Happiness like sadness is also a fluctuating state".I don't think one can be happy all the time similarly one cant be sad all the time.Trying to make others happy at all times brings happiness to us.It always bounces back.Sometimes if we observe when we have had a fight the other person associated is unhappy and upset and that makes you unhappy.When the mind is idle it tends to think of negative things that have happened hence keeping the mind occupied brings happiness by distracting it.Bottom line is happiness is found within us and its we who is detesting to be happy.we need to see beyond us within us.Forgiveness brings immense happiness,people need to learn the art of "letting go".There is only one person in the world who can either keep you happy or sad and its only "You"

sometimes it happens..but we sud not think like that..we shud satisfy ourselves what we have..it is our karma that has brought us upto where we are..so we sud satisfy

Hey careguarden! I ask myself this question all the time and still
have no answer for it! I don't think that being human we are
every happy all the time! I don't think anyone is every really
honestly happy all the time! Everyone has something in their
lives that just isn't quite right! If everything in ones life
was perfect then there would be something wrong! Do you know
anyone who has "the perfect life"? I mean really, that is something
that would really be hard to acheive!

Because, there is always something or someone that will come up and just make things much harder on you. We all get sick, or someone may say something mean to us. And we get upset. There is always something negative going on. The devil is around seeking whom he may devour. He wants to make others sad and mad. I thought that I was going to be happy in my new apartment. But my downstairs neighbors have made living here pure hell. They have aggravated the crap out of me and they have gotten on my last nerves. I know that one day, I will be able to live in my own place without the added stress from any neighbors. What turned into happiness was a dismaying nightmare.