love after marriage or love before marriage?  

hi,mohan,if both understood well about themselves in depth it is better to havea love before marriage..but if that is not too deep..fascination..attraction..then it is not advisable.
However love after marriage is always safe..even if there may be chance of misunderstandings among the the elders will enter and set right the issues..it will not happened in the pairs who married without permission of elders..

hello,

love is a good thing it is important to happy life even it is before or after marriage but after marriage it will give better result.

Love is not something that you have to give only to your spouse. You have to first love yourself and generate lot of love and stock it to distribute. Before marriage or after marriage, you always exist. So love is there before and after. Specific to the spouse, if you ask, after marriage, it is a must, because the best parents can do to their children is both of them love each other. If you happen to know your fiancee before marriage, you should love him/her. Love is always welcome. Please don't confuse that love means only that.

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Marriage is a sacred binding contract between a couple and the best rational/sane/humane reason to get married is that you really love someone and want to spend the rest of your days with him/her.

hello! I think Love before marriage, for sure I will not marry the man I don't love. Yes you can learn to love the person once you live together but I guess it takes a long time before you reach your goal. I better marry the man I love and be responsible in everything I do to make our relationship more happy, so that our love will never fade...after our marriage. Hope I did help you in a simple way.

as a Filipino getting into marriage is a sacrade, it is a commitment, responsibility and obligation to each couple to stand for it as what they have promise to each other. the promises that for better of for worst, for richer or for poorer till death do us part". as you promises this and sign your commitment to your partner its just like you have also commit to God to do your duty and responsibilities as a husband and wife., so love has a big factor here before going into marriage.

Hi mohondang. I think it is better if you know your partner well before you get married. As you know, marriage is about having commitment and long term relationship. Plus you also make a family with the partner. If you don't know the partner well, i think is is not easy to discuss on each issues arose in your marriage. There are pro and contra between both. And it depends on the person either to take a risk or not to. Gud Luck!!