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myLot reputation of 94/100. mavieserrano728 (397)   ranked 2,717 out of 19,197 in relationships 2 years ago

I just feel so sad that every time I am headed to work, my partner brings me to work, we have this tendency to argue over small matters. I don't know if it's really me who is trying to be difficult. But whenever I day somethings he takes it as a big deal which at timed I got so fed up and confronted him about it. Also when I come from work, it's the same. Whenever I say something, it becomes a big deal. At times, I feel that I just don't want to talk at all because it just causes an argument. Can you give me any tips or advises? What is your point of view regarding this? Your responses would be greatly appreciated. Good day!sad

 

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1. myLot reputation of 70/100. manish1234 (172)   2 years ago

hello friend mavieserrano it is absolutely ok to leave the house for work i find why some people dont leave their house they are getting nice job and they are not ready to leave it i friend it strange you should leave if you are getting a great job happy m mylooting


myLot reputation of 94/100. mavieserrano728 (397)   ranked 2,717 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

HI, thank you for responding to my discussion. What I meant with this is that my partner tends to argue with me before going to work and when I get home from work. Do you think that is healthy?

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. boybato (2210)   2 years ago

Disagreements are part of relationships, both of you are different after all. However, both of you should learn to understand each other and control your emotions. There are very petty things that we should just let go and not create some fuss over. I'm also guilty of the same mistake, I tend to overreact even on the smallest details which leads to fights. The very key in settling disagreements is to approach and talk about it in a proper way. Instead of talking in a somewhat disappointed and mad manner, talk in a slow manner which invites your husband to respond in the same way. In that way, you could talk properly and let your side be heard. Control your emotions and reactions.


myLot reputation of 94/100. mavieserrano728 (397)   ranked 2,717 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

I am trying to control my temper and choose to keep quiet. But if it is done very often is gets into my nerves already. I don't think that its right to be redundant over the same mistake. Don't you think?thumbup

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3. myLot reputation of 86/100. junrapmian (2071)   ranked 2,144 out of 19,197 in relationships   2 years ago

I guess, you're both stressed out! Why don't you both take sometime together, away from your work and home, maybe an up-of-town weekend get together. Then talk things over. Tell him what you feel about his making fuzz over little things. And ask him about his feeling about it also. Exchange thoughts. You maybe lacking communication with each other or each of you might be feeling that you are taken for granted. Did you ask yourself? You might be so hooked with your job and you are neglecting your wifely obligation. And maybe he is, too? And please, when you talk to him, do it in the most calm manner, even you yourself do not want to talk to somebody whose tone of voice is not good to the ear, isn't it? If you just let this happen and will not do something about it, you're misunderstanding and miscommunication will aggravate the situation and will end to separation someday, would you want that?


myLot reputation of 94/100. mavieserrano728 (397)   ranked 2,717 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Of course I don't want that to happen-separation. I have tried to work things out with him but it becomes very repetitive at some point that it already annoys me. Yet, despite that fact, I still manage to keep quiet and let him do the talking if he wants to. I also tried to talk to him about this but it's not helping at times. What can you suggest?confused

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