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myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting 2 years ago

What do you think of all these tools out there for the under five set? Your baby can read, and hooks on phonics, flashcards galore. What do you think of these, does it help prepare your child for school? Is it a good use of his time? Is mixed play/learning the way to go.

I like the Monetessori route, learning from play. Not structured play.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20751)   2 years ago

My sister and I went to K-4, but we could read when we were three. And it wasn't because of any kind of program from TV. I think parents just being active with their children aids them in learning. My mom and Nana read to use from when we were babies, and I believe that is how we learned to read. From watching and seeing and practicing what we saw. They never used any kind of teaching tool. If my mom had not had to go to work to help my dad pay the household bills, I think we would never have even gone to K-4, but waited until K-5.

In K-4 they did have phonics, and that helped a lot of kids read. I'm all for phonics, but I don't think they are necessary. I can still remember st in stop, pl in plane...we sang them. I have no idea if what we did was anything like hooked on phonics one sees on TV.

Unless one has a child perhaps with a learning disability, I don't think they need to have school stuff shoved down their throats before they even enter school. Children grow up faster than ever before, and bear more responsibility than ever before. They don't need any help putting more pressure on themselves. I say your way, artemis, is a smart way. Let kids be kids.


myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting  2 years ago

I think when kids are playing - they are learning - on so many levels. I think you'll be a great parent if you ever choose to be!

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. Zhizho (774)   ranked 636 out of 9,011 in parenting   2 years ago

children love playing because actually Playing for them is learning. They get many information but I choose to give education tools for children. I think, it more useful and yes it help prepare them at school letter. But the more important for me is How everything tools around them can be media of learning. when they are in kitchen with you,when They hold some stuff, you can give many information as knowledge for them. There is many methode but the point is parent is their first teacher and Home is prime school. So,as parent we must be creative.


myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting  2 years ago

Sounds like you like to create a balance, I think that's wonderful.

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3. myLot reputation of 80/100. creative_genius (901)   2 years ago

I would go for the mixed play option- though if I had a baby I would be very tempted with the Your Baby Can Read stuff. I wouldn't put pressure on my baby though. I would have a vast range of things for them to play with and learn from!


myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting  2 years ago

I like the mix as well. And if things like your baby can read are fun then we can spend time with it. No pressure - the world is new and just chock full of opportunity.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. snowdoll487 (2965)   2 years ago

Neither. According to recent studies reading to your child is far better. :) When you started reading to your child from the time you we're pregnant up until she/he was growing up she will learn faster and better. :) And would cultivate interest in reading books and learning. And the child must have less exposure to TV.


myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting  2 years ago

So since I asked if education tools (books are one such tool) and/or play were good uses of time...you answered neither.

I guess I think balance is the key. Reading to a child, which to me is a great educational tool is important and I would never ever take out playtime - so do your children not play? Sounds like it since you feel neither play or educational tools - besides books are good for children I think play time is affords great learning opportunities. I am all for educational tools, like books and flashcards and fun velcro charts as long as its remains fun for the child. Play.

And of course, I like to capture opportunities for learning in all aspects of life, walks, cooking etc. :)

Respectfully,
amy


myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting  2 years ago

I so agree about using books as tools to encourage both a love of reading and helping in school later! A wonderful educational tool. I read when I was pregnant too - whatever I was reading - I read aloud!


myLot reputation of 89/100. snowdoll487 (2965)  2 years ago

LOL Sorry. @_@ I must have not read the first few words.. I only noticed learning from play. :P Reading aloud is cool. According to recent studies too, fetus have short and long term memories. :) So reading to an unborn child becomes a good step to educate them. :)


myLot reputation of 92/100. artemis432 (2212)   ranked 284 out of 9,011 in parenting  2 years ago

I knew the part about reading and stuff, but not about the memories - too cool!

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