What blind love can lead to? Please read this...  |
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|  Dear myLotters... We have heard a lot about love and trust and relationships.. No I am not ridiculing love. I am in love, already and I know beautiful it is to be in love. It is the best feeling of all... And yet, blind love can lead to the most unwanted, unforeseen and extremely tragic events... Here is a true story...
A boy and a girl started dating.. John and Maria, let us assume their names for our convenience. Maria told John that it wasn't her real name and John was okay with it, he didn't feel good to ask WHY did she went with an assumed name? Things were going good, very good... Within months they were planning to marry... Once they decided to meet at her flat and have some fun.. John arrived at the appointed time. Maria let him in, made him sit and said she would be back. She had some work in kitchen, maybe! While John was waiting there, he found a short note which read: '...it'll be great to see you after so long time, have missed you a lot. Will meet you at your flat at 6 in the evening. Lots of love. Take care... Dave!'
One can imagine, John got furious about it. He had been cheated, he felt. When she came in, he didn't ask her anything about it and decided to catch them red-handed. That day passed without any event. Next evening, John returned to her flat and waited outside the building. When he saw a young man entering her flat, he dashed forward and opened the door. He found both of them hugging each other.. Without a word or a thought, he stabbed the guy twice, furiously... The girl screamed and shouted, "Oh my God, you have killed my BROTHER!" It turned out later that her brother had been in prison and that's why she had changed her name... Her brother didn't die immediately, but on the way to hospital, he pardoned his sister's lover and didn't file a complaint with cops..
TRAGIC, right??? I felt dazed after reading this story and worse, it is no imagination of some clever writer, it is a REAL story... What would you comment upon this? Blind Love!! OR what? Have you ever come across such a story or situation? What would be your reaction, even if you were a simple spectator of the drama? Please share....
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1.  dloveli (1582)
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2 years ago
| |  That is a BIG problem today. People always jumping to conclusions was bound to have some terrible consequences. If I was the Maria I would have not been able to have another relationship. We need to start asking questions rather than jumping to conclusions. Happy MyLotting dl
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| mr_pearl (1858)
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2 years ago
| | Yes DL... I agree! John simply read the note and formed up his own conclusions and took his decision... I feel terrible for the brother, who had come to see his sister after years and at the moment of their re-union, he got killed by his sister's lover. How awful!! Thanks for sharing DL... It is good to read from you after a long time... | | | |
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2.  prasunsam (276)
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2 years ago
| |  More than blind love i feel that its a mental illness in the case that you mentioned.The boy seems to be too much obsessed about that girl that he can even kill anyone for that girl without knowing the appropriate reason.Love should should be more of giving rather than taking.The first step of love is trust and i think if we blindly love a person then we should trust him or her blindly also.This is the ultimate meaning of blind love for me.
take care
bye
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| mr_pearl (1858)
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2 years ago
| | Very well put, my friend... Thanks a lot for sharing... You seem to have explained very clearly the meaning of love. Yes, the guy seems to have obsessed with that girl.. And this obsession did amount to mental illness, I am sure... Horrible story! When I read it, I became blank.. Couldn't think of anything anymore... Can there be any worse tragedy??? | | | |
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3.  grace24 (879)
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2 years ago
| |  Wow, it is a very shocking story. It is the mistake of the John because he assumed that Maria had a relationship with the guy. Poor guy, he was stabbed by John because of misunderstanding. Well, that's the effect of being too much inlove with a person. He became jealous of the guy without actually knowing that it was the brother of Maria. What a tragedy. If I am the brother of Maria, I am going to file a case against her boyfriend. It was a huge mistake. Sometimes people often jump into conclusions without investigating or gathering the right informations about it. Blind love can lead into a tragedy. It can lead into something that is not expected.
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| mr_pearl (1858)
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2 years ago
| | Yes, it is a real shocking story... It shocked me and left me blank for quite a while.. Moreover, I felt stupid for the whole day. This fellow made, kind of, mockery of LOVE and faith...
Her brother had a criminal history and when he was on the death bed, he seemed to have become kind and told the cops that he didn't wish to file a case... An accidental case was registered, therefore. I feel terrible for the sister and the brother, both...
Thanks for sharing, Grace!!! | | | |
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| 5. boybato (2210)
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2 years ago
| |  I don't think it's blind love but just mere problem or lack of communication. Communication plays a very important key in relationships and it could either make or break a relationship. Communication is the key of settling misunderstandings and in clearing things out. If I were that guy, I'd immediately confront her about such note. Why shouldn't I? She's my girlfriend and I've got the right to know everything, especially thinking of the fact that we're getting married. Another thing is that I should know the very reason why is she using a different name. Everything should be transparent in relationships and anything that is hidden could breach trust, which is very important in relationships. Should he have known that such guy was her brother, then the situation shouldn't have gone a lot worse, it was too unnecessary. It's just so tragic that things could go as worse as that just because of pure misunderstanding and without knowing what's really going on. Confronting "Maria" is a lot easier than reacting wildly without any grounded facts. Emotions could be at it's highest in relationships and one shouldn't let it rule over but instead, still let logic and reasoning do it's purpose. Use one's emotions to run the relationship but use one's brain to make decisions. Both are important in making the relationship work and get better and of course, avoid things getting out of hand.
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| mr_pearl (1858)
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2 years ago
| | Hello Friend, thank you for the wonderful response.. I wish I could get your response printed and could publish it... Yes, relationships need transparency to remain healthy! This fellow didn't act directly... didn't confront her about the note... didn't ask about her name! And when things got confused he got confused more than anything else... Poor guy! I feel terrible for all of them... | | | |
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6.  starmoon2815 (106)
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2 years ago
| |  People get so mad in LOve that they doonot see right and left, Love is not madness , but superior feeling,Story of john and maria was really sad,.
We mylooter could learn from this not to draw any conculsion so fast if such situation ever cripped in that can tak eaway life of an innocent.
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7.  qamarep (4087)
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2 years ago
| |  i cant fall in a blind love becaue i have the requiremetns for her in her beauty
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| mr_pearl (1858)
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2 years ago
| | Hi Sarah... Thanks for the most analytical response... I agree with you that complete frankness in a relationship is must... This frankness gives rise to trust and faith which form the basis for a relationship... This has been the most tragic story that I have ever come across... | | | |
| sarahruthbeth22 (15797)
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2 years ago
| |  I agree. But I guess it could have been worse. The guy could have killed both his girl And the brother and then himself. There are stories like that here in the States. It is always sad.
Thanks for the best response.
I guess the moral of this story Is to be truthful at all times , especially with a lover. I have learned with my guy that it Feels better to be truthful. I am lucky , he Sees me and loves what he sees.I hope you have the same relationship with your love.
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| mr_pearl (1858)
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2 years ago
| | Hi Sarah... I agree with you... One has to be true to one's love, always... I am glad that this has been in your life... and this is with me and my girl too... We trust each other, if we don't like anything, we simply talk about it and sort it out.. there is never a big quarrel over things... We love each other, we understand each other... | | | |
| sarahruthbeth22 (15797)
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2 years ago
| | Isn't it great? No fighting and all misunderstandings are cleared up! | | | |
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| sarahruthbeth22 (15797)
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2 years ago
| | With my guy we just click. I always have been more from Mars than Venus. | | | |
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