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myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships 2 years ago

Dear myLotters... I am sure my question sounds funny and pretty out of order.. The unwritten law is that men always gift their ladies. But today I came across something truly unimaginable... I just met with a friend of mine, who wore a nice wrist watch.. .I asked him how did he get it? When did he buy it? Because we people generally shop together.. He told me that his girl-friend gifted it to him.. Its not his birthday, it is just a simple day... Nothing special... And yet, this girl gifted him a costly wrist watch...

Hitherto, I have seen men gifting their ladies even if there was nothing special.. Wonder, since when ladies started gifting boys...? and also, what kind of impact it can create? How the relation will be affected? It is like breaking the general sequence and doing something out of order, so these questions popped up in my mind...

what do you think about it? Please share...

 

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tags:  gifts, gift, men, bf, boy
 
1. myLot reputation of 78/100. 3honor (9740)   2 years ago

well why not? It's fairly common in the UK, but there is also equality of income ie the same job is paid at the same rate regardless of male/female post holder. Mind you female income is about 80% of male income here despite discrimination rules so ...


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Well, I am not discriminating, my friend... I know that women have made a lot of progress these days.. Even in my country, many women are placed in management and making more money than their hubbies... But, I wasn't talking about that... From a clear standpoint of relationships and their rules, it has never happened that a lady gifted her man without reason... I guess, I couldn't frame my post very well..

Thanks for sharing... Have a nice time!

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11868)   ranked 328 out of 19,197 in relationships   2 years ago

This clearly shows that the girl in question was very nice and generous and she truly loves your friend and to show her love and affection and her commitment, she gifted a wrist watch to your friend. There is nothing wrong in it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Yes, that girl is very fondly attached to my friend... And I agree with you that she expressed her love with the gift... Thanks for sharing my friend... :) Have a great time!

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3. leimer08 (38)   2 years ago

Girls can give gifts? of course they can, I used to give gifts to my boyfriend and it doesn't matter at all even if it is expensive or not what matters most if you give it to the person you love regardless if you will get married or not

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. atv818 (1575)   ranked 5,967 out of 19,197 in relationships   2 years ago

There's nothing wrong with women giving expensive gifts to men as long as they didn't steal them. When my husband and I were in our courting stage, I give him gifts because I wanted to and not because there is an occasion. I think it's a wonderful way to show that you appreciate the person if you give them gifts from out of the blue.

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5. myLot reputation of 57/100. bonanza9 (157)   2 years ago

hmm, seeing that "phenomenon" in my country would be very surprising. We eastern puts women into passive role, and to see something like that, the woman would be get the mark as too aggressive by my social. However, with the western influence caused by net and media nowadays, little by little our custom changes too. As woman emancipation move, Woman equals with man, she got a chance to get close to the man that she like too and give things to him.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Hello... Thanks for sharing... I am from East too. I am an Indian... And yes, it seems as if things're changing here, it is a slow effect of globalization, what do you say?

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. xsammiex (2510)   2 years ago

for me, it is completely the opposite. my boyfriend isn't really the type to give me romantic gifts - he would much rather show me or tell me how much he loves me. he says you can't buy someone's love, so buying someone something expensive doesn't tell you they love you. but i frequently buy him things - nothing expensive, just some sweets i know he likes or a dvd i think he'll want.. just little things really. he will occassionally buy me something he knows i want and knows will make me happy, but the way he sees it is if he buys me something and i don't like it, we both feel rubbish, so he waits till he knows i want something, then buy me it. but me, i think i know him really well, so i just pick up something i know he'll like and it always makes him happy. even if i ever happen to get something he doesn't like, at least he knows i was thinking of him, and that's what really matters to him. he's more one for the sentimental words and actions rather than expensive gifts - we can spend more money on going out together that way!


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Hiiii... Thanks for sharing... Seems as if both of you are very fondly attached to each other. In a way, I trust I agree with your boy friend. I appreciate it that he buys those things for you, which you need... That is wonderful! It shows that you understand each other thoroughly and there is a lot of transparency in your relationship... Wonderful... Have fun!

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7. myLot reputation of 92/100. unuzzz (822)   ranked 4,142 out of 19,197 in relationships   2 years ago

hey mr_pearl ..
i think it'll be fair enough if women also offer gifts to the men.. :D
as a men, i experienced that men have the bigger financial problems, like paying the foods, picking up the lady and then taking her back home which costs more for the gas, etc..

i don't mean to say that i'm a cheap guy who counts every cents i spend,
but sometimes girls are taking easy on their boyfriends, without realizing that this is also another issue than just maintaining the relationship..
small gifts can help us relieved..lols

i hope girls don't take my words as a mean thing, :P
it's not a problem for spending more, since there's a bigger satisfaction behind the expense.. :)

thanks !


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Hello Friend... Thanks for sharing.. I wouldn't say that I don't agree with you... It needs a lot of thinking though, before I write my thoughts ;)... But I think, girls have started gifting their guys now... At least, this is there... :) Have fun!

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8. myLot reputation of 88/100. melloncollie (547)   ranked 2,468 out of 19,197 in relationships   2 years ago

No problem with that in my opinion. Gift giving is really for every one. Women being the receiver of gifts is traditional. A girl giving her man a gift is but one another gesture of sweetness and thoughtfulness. That's exactly the same thing a man does whenever he gives something to his girl. Sweetness and thoughtfulness is for every one.


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

I agree with you my friend... Yes, it is a gesture full of love and kindness towards the one whom we love.. Thanks for sharing!! Have a wonderful time!

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9. tolted (88)   2 years ago

I don't see anything wrong with a girl giving gifts to her boyfriend or husband. I was not even aware there was some law about giving gifts. In fact I think this week I should surprise my hubby with a gift, just because I love him. :)


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Hello friend... I think you misinterpreted my words, or maybe I failed to convey what I wanted to say... I didn't say that it was a LAW... I have mentioned an 'unwritten law', which means that it has been the tradition so far... :)

What gift do you plan to buy for your hubby? Just curious... rolleyesThanks for sharing... Have a good time...

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10. myLot reputation of 98/100. ifa225 (4732)   ranked 127 out of 19,197 in relationships   2 years ago

i often give gifts to my men. If i see that he needs something i will buy him one. he never ask the things, but it just a pleasure if i can give him something then he use or wear it. I guess the loved caused me did so..lol


myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1858)   ranked 421 out of 19,197 in relationships  2 years ago

Yes Ifa, love causes it... It is really kind and romantic of you to offer things to your husband which he needs.. That is surely appreciated by us- the men... lol

Thanks a lot for sharing.. Have a nice time...

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