If You Were In Her Shoes I Know You feel The Same  | | | |  As I go over my facebook friends this morning,one status of an added friend online caught my attention.It goes like this.." How I can tell everyone that outside Im okay but the truth is deep inside im not". As I go over to the comments there I know the real story.
Her father was diagnosed of stage four cancer of the lungs.And she said that the doctor tell them that her father will just live only for days or just months.She cant explain how she will feel,but I know it very hard for him,because in their family she is her fathers darling.
I was touch what she said that everyday as she looks at her father,tears flowing from his eyes because eventhough she know that its hard also for his father to know that he is sick,but still she saw a sweet smile in her father's face.
Her father would sing for her,her favorite song" your always be beautiful in my eyes".I really know the feeling when one of the family members is in a non curable stage of a disease.Because Five years ago it also happened to my family.
My brother left us,because of cancer of the blood.He died in an early age of 23.He is my only and younger brother.We are so very closed and during the time he was diagnosed of having a cancer. I really don't know also how I feel during those time.
But maybe all of this has it's own reason,we have our owned time to live in this earth,pain of losing our love ones is the hardest situation sometimes to cope up.God has the reason for everything just keep our faith in Him,pray always and I know the rest will gonna be fine.
Always remember after the rain there's always a rainbow,it may rain overnight but tomorrow we all know that the sun will shine again.
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| 1.  mario_stevens (2024)
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2 years ago
| |  hi elleb0418,
i can empathize with your facebook friend, as i too went through something similar. my dad was diagnosed with multiple myloma, a blood & bone marrow condition. things are made more complicated that he also is having some other things going on, like chronic diabetes, hypertension, and a weird allergy to fresh fruits.. he went through a very tough time during his treatments, and he still is going through it. he puts up a strong face whenever his family is around him and he refuses to baby'd around too much.
a couple of months ago he started to act a bit different from usual. was insisting that he needs to see his lawyer to update his will. of course this got me and my siblings thinking about what may be going on. but we didn't pursue it openly out of respect for him. we met up with his doctor to inquire if there is anything that we, the children should know about. the doctor just said that it is my dad's wishes that we are to be told that he is really not well, and he wants us to be prepared. but my dad made his doctor swear to not tell anyone anything beyond that.
this got us scared. but after overcoming some emotions, we realized that our dad doesn't want to put the fear of a 'final date' in our heads. he wants us to be the people that he brought us up to be, and to continue growing as how he taught us to, and he does not want us to stop experiencing life just because of his condition. now, we cherish every single moment we have together. regardless of the fact that we are busy in our own jobs, and day to day tasks. there will always be one of us to be around him. not to baby him. but just to be around. today is my turn.
i'm never ashamed to say that i love my dad. one day soon, we may not be able to hear him laugh no more. but we are prepared. in his own fatherly way, he has prepared us for that. and that is one more thing that i respect about him and love about him.
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 elleb0418 (420)
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2 years ago
| | When we know that one of the very important people in our life is leaving us soon,we see to it that the days left was a happy one.We all know that pain is there,but still we are trying to accept the reality.
The best thing to do is acceptance.Then after that pain will slowly fades away,but still the memories they left us will never be forgotten. | | | | | | | Pancreas Cancer Diagnosis Contact CTCA To Learn More About Treatment Options At Our Centers. www.CancerCenter.com | add comment | | | |
| 2.  frontvisions101 (9932)
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2 years ago
| |  That's a sad story and i'm sorry for your loss as well. These situations are the hardest to deal with. Family should be important. They only get to live once and they've lived most of their lives with you so they've left a considerable mark in your life That's why It's hard to deal with if they're gone.
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| elleb0418 (420)
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2 years ago
| | The hardest situation to deal,is when one of your family is sick and the disease is the incurable one. The family go through a lot of pains and sacrifices.
But sometimes thats the reality of life in this world,we all know that someday we will leave this world,we don't know how it was and we dont know when is the time. So while we are here the best way to do is to be happy with the persons who are important to our life. | | | | | | | Cancer Treatment Fighting Cancer - Chat with an Oncology Specialist Now. www.healthcentral.com | add comment | | | |
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