what are the common signs that he/she loves you??  

I have found that some people say they love you but their actions is where you see the most truth. Do they do special things for you just because? Are they truthful with you? Do they truly listen to you? Are they there for you when you really need them? I've had friends come thru for me when i really needed them and I knew I was loved without them even having to tell me. Some of my family members say they love me but when I need them, they are not there so I know the truth there too. Real love takes time and with time you will know without a doubt if it's real or not. Take care!

Welcome to mylot Angelann, yes love is certainly a complicated thing, related to emotional feelings, it can be felt, you can see it in the eyes of the person who loves you, but please don't confuse love with lust...
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