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hmmm yeah but girl that is the negative side of girls, they talk so much.. that is a lesson learned that the next time around you have to keep issues just for yourself especially if its personal..

I too learned my lesson the hard way you just did. Ever since I know, you must never tell your secret, even if it is your best friend. Never reveal your secret otherwise; it would never remain a secret. Once you tell your secret to someone, it means you want it to be revealed.

you should not always trust your friend unless you are sure of her/his credibility on keeping secrets. There's always a possibility of your secrets being divulge if you share them to people you can't fully trust. and it is always difficult to pinpoint people who can be trusted. sometimes, even your best friend cannot keep secrets the way you want him/her to.

The best is to keep a secrect to yourself only. That way, you are assured of a 100% secrecy on whatever it is that you want to keep hidden. But there are still people around who can be trusted with secrets. The key is to be able to distinguish between the keepers and the tellers.....

A secret is a secret. When it pertains to your safety then you should not spill it to someone.I do have a secret and I will not share it to someone because it might be used as a block mail against me. For your safety,even if it is your friend you should not dare to tell your friend.

If you knew your friend talked too much, then you shouldn't of told her. You can test people though, by telling them minor secrets tiny things, that you wouldn't want to tell people, but wouldn't mind if it got out. Thats a test to see if they tell someone.
Then again, no secret is really a secret. I know secrets, and theres some I wont' say, but like for example.. my sister doesn't know anyone I know, or anyone is that whole group and never will so I may say something to her to vent my feelings cause its never going to get back to those people.

Instead of telling your secrets to your friends and risk the chance they tell...try posting on www.SecretsINeverTold.com. That's what I do. If I need to get something off my chest, I submit the secret and it feels like a weight has been lifted of my shoulders. You can also comment and vote on other people's secrets. People submit secrets that are crazy, sad, funny and everything in between.