what can we do to enhance loyalty to the love and marriage?  

Hi myy for me it is the deterioration of moral... because only the family that promotes love will last but if love is put aside then divorce due unfaithfulness, unresolved conflict, and even lack of attention.

You can always continue courtship. I think its a very good idea never to stop courtship even though you are already married. I always think these things are really necessary even though some men dont think about it as something important. I think men needs serious lecture about this. lol

Hi Myy Good day to you! The problem is most of us are body conscious, we feel we are the body and the rigmarole of dishonesty, not loyal, unfaithful all starts. If one is aware that he/she is a soul, then they can play their role effectively. Good actors can play any role. They will play each role to the best of their ability, but will never actulay think, " I am Romeo" or "Iam Juliet". However involved they are with their roles, at the end of the performance, they will take off their costumes, drop the characteristics & features of the role & resume their true identities.

The following thoughts can help you break the habit of identifying with your roles.

"Whatecer role I,the soul, am required to play e.g. Managing Director at my work place and husband or father at home, I maintain my true self awareness, my true identity as a soul- a living, spiritual, eternal being. The body is simply my temporary, physical costume through which I can create and play as many roles as I wish.".... This attitude will release all ego and people will live happily that there won't be any need of divorce!
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