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myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people 2 years ago

We all know people in this world with black or white colour. Do you choose colour of the person to make friends. In my country also they will see whether the couples are in white or black at the time of marriage. Most of the Men choose girls with the white colour to get marry. I feel why this is so, is colour reflect the nature of the person? My husband is black and i am white. But we have good relation and understanding. I feel my husband is more good than me, this has no related with the colours i feel, then why people shows differences. Do you know such people who will give more preference to the white colour than nature of the person. And what is your opinion selecting of the people, will you give preference to the colour or nature of the person? Can you share with me related to this?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 80/100. trohichko (154)   ranked 21,949 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

I think judging by one's skin color is stupid and people that judge you by the color of your skin don't deserve you wasting time with them. These people are primitive no matter how much money they have - their egoistic and racist behavior brings only negative feelings. I used to know such people but I rejected them because of the way they act.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Good response, yes i can understand your judgment. Have a nice day.

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2. maura21 (38)   ranked 10,417 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

judge actions ,,,,,,,,,if tghey act loud or ghetto...they r ghetto.........nothing 2 go with race

i love all races but i dont like loud ghretto pple


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Please if you don't mind can you explain me clearly i didn't understand your words properly.


maura21 (38)   ranked 10,417 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

u know young kids white or black any color..........hanging out street corners being loud acting foolosh destroying property

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. miranda521 (249)   ranked 14,067 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

To be honest,I have never met such a question.We are all Chinese,we are yellow.And when we met,we never think of the skin color.That's nothing at all.What we would think over is just wether he is handsome or charming.Maybe because of our skin color are almost same,we are never bothered by this.
Concerned to your problem,I don't think the coloe matters.As long as there is love,all is not a problem.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Yeah this is very true as long as there is love colour is not a problem. Thanks for your response.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. cip116 (513)   ranked 1,677 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

Black and white are very elegant colors
My personality is the equivalent of orange color
(I am a "cold" person and orange color give me a warm feeling )
When I look at a photo I am attracted red things
I think that is because my favorite people are very playful


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Hi there, thanks for your response.

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5. Annmarks (36)   ranked 17,722 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

Colour should never come into it. I have a sister who is mixed race, cousins, also, none of this has ever made the slightest difference to me, its people, who they are, the way, they behave towards you, nothing, to do with their skin colour.

Yes, no doubt, in other countries, as, in ours, there is still predudice around, sosmetimes, nothing, you say or do will ever change another person's attitude.
Colour, should not reflect, how, a person is, their nature, personality, which
determines, how, they conduct themselves through life.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Hi Annmarks, well said colour should not reflect about the nature and the personality. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day.

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6. myLot reputation of 71/100. nAyOhMi14 (199)   ranked 14,202 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

That's what we called discrimination, it depends to our perception.It's just our physical appearance so it cannot define us. But, I can say that white complexion have an advantage compare to black, based on my experience.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Yeah more people attracted to white complexion rather known by personally. Thanks for your response.

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7. myLot reputation of 68/100. libramie (525)   ranked 9,851 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

I don't choose the color of the person whom I make friends for nor their race. The first I prefer for is the attitude of one's being.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Yeah, attitude is the important for a person to choose a friend than colour of the skin. thanks for your response.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. monkeylong (2369)   2 years ago

As far as I am concerned, I think I am a person who usually likes to wear some black clothes or some white clothes only. For me, I think people who wear the white clothes may like that the people are so clean and tidy to people around. Then the black colour may give the people impression that they are so mature in life.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Okay thanks for your comments.

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9. myLot reputation of 98/100. mr_pearl (1855)   ranked 1,911 out of 26,920 in people   2 years ago

Hi Jotomy... I would say I agree with you that the nature of a person doesn't depend upon his/her complexion... Complexion is a natural feature and it is not one's mistake if he is black or white... It is just like that... I am glad that you have found the right person for you, and have given no thought to his complexion...

Why some people prefer white partners? Well, let me tell you that I know an Indian lady (from my Office), who likes only black men. She will date only black guys. The darker the man, the crazier she is for him.. So it is not necessary that everyone likes a white partner... Yes, one thing is true that in India most of us like to be with a white partner. But it must be different in other parts of world, right?


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Hi mr_pearl, yeah your are right, nature of the person doesn't depend up the complexion. Thanks for your comments. Have a nice day.

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10. myLot reputation of 47/100. johnbrainless (1025)   2 years ago

i choose white color people. no apparent reason for doing that. most people in my country is white. keep lotting.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Jotomy (1626)   ranked 291 out of 26,920 in people  2 years ago

Hi johnbrainless, i liked your frankness. Thanks for your response. Have a nice day.

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