How to able to laugh freely with no load in mind ?

@dwipa93 (143)
Indonesia
May 10, 2010 7:53pm CST
Hello Friends, today and early are very beautiful and wonderfull for all people, all happy and laugh out loud, but why is there a friend of mine who could not like them, can laugh with joy, he tried to like them but still can't, how to able to laugh freely with no load in mind ? please share with me..thanks
3 responses
• Philippines
11 May 10
get someone to tickle you.. you will laugh because of reflexes.. or you could simply look at my picture you will surely laugh.. just kiddin.. :)
@dwipa93 (143)
• Indonesia
11 May 10
i've tried it and including taking a walk, so he relaxed, but only for a moment he laughed, maybe there's something in his mind?
• Philippines
11 May 10
try asking him directly im sure he will not mind..
@dwipa93 (143)
• Indonesia
11 May 10
ok, i will try. Thanks for sharing zedric_11
• India
11 May 10
Hi, First of all I would like to inquire, do you want to laugh for a few minutes each day or smile every hour for the rest of your life? The former is out of mere fun and the latter is because of pure mental peace. Now unless you have that peace of mind firmly established inside you, no joy will stay for long. If you laugh it will make you feel good but will ultimately expend the entire happiness you've acquired. What is the solution then? How to make this happiness stay forever? The only way is through proper interpretation of life. The essence of life is detachment. It is our attachment to trivial, material matters that makes us heavy and arrest our wings, so that we drop down like a heavy stone being unable to fly freely. Lets just live in the present. Yesterday has gone out of our hand, tomorrow is a million miles away. We have today, which is a gift. Lets live it to our best. Thinking about both past and future is the evidence of having attachment. But when with constant effort we establish our thought perfectly in the present, we learn how to appreciate the things we already have. Then we come up with a new realization that there is absolutely nothing to get hung about. That first shocks us, and then finally relieves us from all those 'load's. It makes us free and happy. For, my friend freedom is just another word for happiness. Thanks God bless you
• India
11 May 10
Thanks. Please feel free to call me Biswa. That is my name. God bless you
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@dwipa93 (143)
• Indonesia
11 May 10
I am very happy with what you've for us, very beautiful, ineeded everyone has their own lives and they also have their own settlement, but still need someone else as a guide. Beginning a new life and try to remove the burden of the past, would make life more calm and happy. Thank you very much Getbiswa2000, this is a very beautiful
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• China
11 May 10
Frankly,I didn't know how to laugh freely,but every time when I laugh, I laugh freely.Don't think to much,just laugh, and push all the worries away.
@dwipa93 (143)
• Indonesia
11 May 10
I've tried to suggest to my friend as well, but as I've mentioned there might be a burden on his mind, but every time i asked, never give a definite answer, the answer is simply, Nothing.....