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hyren2012 (12) 2 years ago

i will quit the jop here and move to another city, where my boyfriend lives. but last night he told me that i should pay some of the rent. he said that the living expense of that city was much higher.and at the prsent he lives in a rented apartemnt with his sister and brother-in-law. they share the rent together. i promised my boyfriend that i would share the rent.but actually i feel some kind unconfortable.you know,in china, it is quite normal that your boyfriend pays the rent alone when you live together with him.in fact ,i donot care about such question.i just care whether he loves me or not .i doubt that. how do you think of that question,my lotters? i want your help.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 64/100. beachdune (538)   ranked 2,868 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   2 years ago

He surely loves you . But how do you compare your house rent with this matter ?


hyren2012 (12)  2 years ago

sorry for my late answer because of the time zone.
i appreciate so much for all the replies from my lotters,
which really help me greatly.you know,as i said in my post,
i donot care whether i should pay the rent or not,i just care whether
he loves me or not. but anyway,as least your replies relax me lot.

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2. myLot reputation of 91/100. zralte (2401)   ranked 2,108 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   2 years ago

I don't think it is unfair. It if fair that you should pay your share of the rent. I don't think love has anything to do with it.

May be you should make sure that you get a job in the new city before moving there. And also ask your boyfriend if he can wait till you get the paycheck to start paying your share of the rent.

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3. myLot reputation of 92/100. Ritchelle (2711)   ranked 344 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   2 years ago

i think it is just plain sensible to offer one's share of the rent since both are working.

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4. myLot reputation of 89/100. allamgirl (1307)   ranked 7,055 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   2 years ago

it think it's only fair that you pay your share of rent. if you lived anywhere else, you still would pay rent. and it's not like you boyfriend is asking you to pay the whole rent, right? i think whether he loves you or not is irrelevant to paying your rent.

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5. myLot reputation of 58/100. lomns98 (101)   ranked 3,267 out of 19,273 in questions & answers   2 years ago

I think you should pay some of the rent. you two are both sharing the apartment correct?

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